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Bi curious, bi sexual... what am I???

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Question - (5 September 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey my boyfriend thinks i might be bi curious or bi sexual but i dont think i am. So i was wondering how do you know for sure if you are? He thinks i am cause i some times have sexual dreams about girls and i would rather watch girl on girl porn then a guy and a girl. But i dont think i am cause i know i would never want to have a relationship with a girl or do anything sexual to one but I wouldnt really care if they do any thing sexual to me. So what does that make me? Thanks for any opinions.

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A female reader, Miss-Kirstie-Lauren United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2010):

Hiya, i am exactly the same. I am not in a relationship but i have the constant need for sex. Its always on my mind so i started masturbating. I too watch girl on girl porn but would never want to do anything with a girl although i wouldnt mind if they did stuff to me.

I do not think i am bisexual/bicurious and i think i have an explantion as to why i wouldnt mind if agirl did stuff to me. Things that can be done to a girl, can be done by a male or female. However sexual activity that i would give is not for females.

I too went through a stage where i would watch man on man porn but i grew out of it.

Could this possible be a stage that you are going through?

Don't let people call you names or tell you what you are. You are you and you are whatever you want to be.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010):

I'm a female and watch man on man porn, what does that make me? don't let anyone tell you who you are. You will find out yourself

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010):

"Your boyfriend doesn't "think" you're bi or bicurious, more like he HOPES"

100% spot on... this guy sound like he's trying to force you into experimenting as it arouses him. Sounds like someone you should NOT be in a relationship with.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (5 September 2010):

Your boyfriend doesn't "think" you're bi or bicurious, more like he HOPES. I think it's normal to be curious, I think everyone is at some point in their life; however, if you aren't really into women as in not wanting to have a relationship with one or do anything sexual to another woman, then I would say you're straight. Besides that, why is it so important to put a label on your sexuality? Because your boyfriend will think it's cool to have a bisexual girlfriend that will bring girls home to him?

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A female reader, WhateverMovesThee United States +, writes (5 September 2010):

WhateverMovesThee agony auntPeople would say you are bi-curious. But really, putting tags and titles on things just limits you. Dont focus so much on that. You like what ya like and thats that. Labels simply complicate things.

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