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male
age
36-40,
*akotaflame
writes:well i'm a guy and 18 this year and basically it's kinda selfish and stupid on my part but i really like this girl who's actually, attached. well i mean she does seem to send out some flirting signals, and like even though the guys sometimes nudge me towards standing or sitting with her obviously, she doesn't mind and stuff. we talked quite abit before and there were a few times we talked about other guys and our futures and stuff and it was really romantic. recently she cried sometimes because her boyfriend probably had an argument with her, and for about 5months now her profile's devoid of her boyfriend's posts, pictures, and they don't even seem to be interacting much.the question is, should i continue to flirt or try to get to know her more and stuff and ultimately try to get together with her? first i probably expect most of the commenters out here would tell me to give up and just leave an attached girl alone. i work alot with respect, and i've been distancing myself even to the point of acting differently around her in an avoidance kind of behaviour but somehow i'm just very miserable. honestly, i'm timid too, which could explain why i wouldn't dare to make a move with her (assuming i should have). i just respect their relationship, not scared of her bf or anything, but im just miserable and whiny it's pathetic. should i wait? any advice i could have? thanks alot
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reader, Miss-Kirstie-Lauren  +, writes (5 September 2010):
Heyyah,
First thing you need to think about it how well do you two get on? Second thing is are you mates with her boyfriend? If so then is it really worth going after her?
If, after asking yourself these questions, you still feel this girl is worth it then here are some ideas. A little flirting is your safest bet. Two people who share an attraction will naturally flirt with eachother. Your just simply extending your boundaries.
There is nothing wrong with a little flirting and just see where things go from there.
Good Luck x
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