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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I really need some help! I've been with my boyfriend for a little more then a year and a half he says he really cares about me/loves me a lot n other people seem to see it to. The problem is I really have trust issues and he just started college. Although he is only half a hour away from me I only see him about once a week. He claims that he is always too busy yet at night he goes out to parties and clubs ect... I go to school and work so I'm busy a lot so I don't play around like that and I try to spend my free time with him but he usually says he has baseball or something (he plays for his college) Its not that I have a problem with him going out, its the fact that he acts like hes sooo busy and tired all the time and a busy person just wouldnt have the time to do these things... THEN, I went on his facebook (I had to do it..) and saw that he told one girl that me and him been over for two months and another girl that we never even hangout anymore. like really? I'm so annoyed because I'm exausted over here with work and school and trying to make things work when its like this. Am I being paranoied or is this stuff happening messed up?
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (6 September 2010):
 he has taken u for granted. he does his own thing while u believe u do too but really? college and work aren't hobbies! u wait like a lovestruck puppy to see him everytime,and u make urself available.i know im harsh but when i hear stories like yours i get upset. please read WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES by Sherry Argov.
Now,you are not being paranoid. Him telling those girls he doesnt hang out with you anymore is just aweful. He talks like that? and you are his girl?
I think he uses you. He has his fun when hes away and when he comes back he has you. convenient huh? and he sees u just enough to keep the relationship going.
Dump him before he does. after all...you've been "over for 2 months"
GOd bless you.
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