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female
age
41-50,
*sprince
writes:I am a female who never had any trust issues before.Now i am in a relationship with a man who a week after we had sex sent a female an invite on a site telling her she is the kind of woman he is looking for and sent her his phone number and email address. I confronted him and he just said if i love him i wouldnt have even looked at that. Anyway we moved on from that but he cant seem to stay off these social networking sites and always checking out women and commenting on their pics and he thinks that i shouldnt be upset about this.Iam trying to but he has lied so many times it is hard to forget the things he has done i do love him and he always says he loves me and he really is a lovely person but he just does things that would upset me very often.Recently he went out and said he would be back in the wee hours of the morning but he came back the following day at 25 mins past 11 and told me i have nothing to be upset about and when i tried calling him his cell phone was off.My question is please tell me if i am overreacting to the situation or am i right to be upset.I forgot to mention he finds every excuse in the book to talk to his ex wife and he went so far as to go by her house and she was with her man and he told her I hope you are not giving away me and your style meaning sex now they have been divorced for about 5 years now. Is that disrespectful to me or am I being too uptight.We have been together for 2 years and 8 months.
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (5 September 2010):
wow i am srry o tell you this but theres just too many red flaggs i would get solid proof to use against him then leave him dont let him tell you if you love him you would trust him n you shouldnt have done it YOU HAVE ALL RIGHTS he is just using your love for himagainst you n its not good that is actually one of the main forms of emotional abuse in cheating partners i kid you not look it up
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reader, dijoyful  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 No your not being unreasonable at all, we all have differant levels of tolerance, and you two are miles apart. I feel that you are the kind of person that when your man is with you, you expect him only have eyes for you and to be his one and only, which is perfectly fine, emailing, texting commenting on other women in this basis is totally unexceptable to you and he should know. Tell him how you are feeling, if he continues to treat you in such a disrepectful manner then you have no choice than to walk away, he will never change and will make you totally miserable. Don't get sad get mad, your worth far more than this.
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