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writes:My boyfriend and i have a great relationship. We do have sex, a lot. He has had many other partners, where as i have only had one other. My problem is that i cannot cum! He gets really offended and things it's his fault, but he does turn me on- i don't know what the problem is! I never came while having sex with my other partner, or while masturbating. I hate upsetting him, i just don't know what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, J.Gentleman  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 Ok, well, I a dudes ego in sex usually revolves around if the girl cums, other than having a long penis. But as it sounds, it neither your faults, you just need to explain to him that you have difficulty cumming. I mean have you ever cummed before, if you did, maybe you can remember what made you cum and go on from there, its what some of my friends did (the girls, even I wonder why they tell me) and second, to the dude with the age problem, its pretty difficult to not have sex as a teenager, all we can do is use protection and practice control, not restraint.
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reader, CharmedCupid  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 First off......are you seriously 13-15?
Second,if you cannot cum in time then its no ones fault
just your body's procedure,no sex for 1 week,means no masterbating too!! and then try sex and see might work =/
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reader, Meee666 +, writes (5 September 2010):
First off, please tell me that you're not really 13-15. Because if you are I'm going to give you a very different answer.
Anyway, tell him what you told us. Some women find it very hard to reach orgasm during sex (not that I'd know, because I'm 13-15). Try and explain to him that you love him and just being with him makes you feel uncontrollably happy :)
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