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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Girl took a really impulsive decision and I wonder if I should take her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - Hey Do you think that girls sometimes go and look for other male contact to try and figure out if what they have right now is what they really want? We dated for roughly 4+ years and we stared out very young. We where so in love that we would dr...

He's bored and wants a break

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half, and he wants a break. He feels bored in the relationship, like we are just "going around in circles". He says all the things that we used to find exciting together are no longer fun and ...

Why doesn't his brother like me...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some insight on what is happening in my relationship. I've been dating one of my best friends for about 6 months now, and I'm very close to his mom and dad, as he is close to mine. He is also close to my -much- older ...

I don't know how to get a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - question dear cupid, will i ever find love i've been lonely all my life. i just can't attract women doesn't matter what i try. i've run out of ideas my life lonely and empty. even when i was at school girls avoid me they never talked to me. all my ...

Did she lie about being pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

12 September 2010 (?) - I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago. A few weeks later she told me she was pregnant. I was shocked but happy at the same time and we decided to give things another go. At the time I did think it was a bit convenient for her to be pregnant a few ...

Girlfriend got some single guys number at the bar

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - Is it ok for my girlfriend to get some single dudes phone number at a bar? My GF went out with her single girlfriend last night an they were approached by two single guys. Apparently, these guys sat there and hung out with them until close. My...

What do you think he has in mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - So, I've met a wonderful guy after being single for 9 months following a messy split with an ex I was with for 8 years...we've met up a couple of times (movie and dinner, kiss on the cheek at the end), and I think he's lovely! He's officially asked ...

Why does he ignore me sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - hi, i'm 15 and i have a friend who i have a crush on. i've been told by one of my other friends that him and his friends think i'm pretty and have a bit of a thing for me, and we were getting quite close before the summer holidays, we'd talk nearly ...

Dating one boy but in love with another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - For 7 months this boy has been in love with me and when i found out 4 months later he loved me i found myself in love with him. we could never go out though as i was afraid of what people thought(as he isn't the most popular boy or the best ...

I was going to propose, but not if her "friend" is gonna keep this up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of one year has a guy best friend. They've been friends for years but ever since she and I started the flirting phase (about a week before we got together), he's been a real d-bag to me. Of course, I know he wants her himself but she's ...

My LDR boyfriend is so close to another guy, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - To cut a long story short, I met my boyfriend he's 23 and I'm 19 end of last year. We were both exchange students and met in another country. We've been going out for seven months now. He's a lovely guy, perfect, I've met his parents everything. He ...

Is my sensei hitting on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...

My boyfriend parties hard and it bothers me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - How can I avoid feeling so bothered and upset when my boyfriend drinks? I don't have a problem with drinking. I do have a problem when the girls at these parties take off their clothes or he starts doing something stupid. I'm not a party person, and ...

I got caught by my manager kissing a co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I need help I just got caught by my manager kissing a work mate of mine we been together for just under 3months omg I have no idea what to do! i'm so embarrassed. does anyone know any laws or anything that state we can't do this? I don't know... He ...

What can I do to surprise him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I wanted to give him a surprize on our 7th month anniversary. But I am a boring person was wondering what should I do to give him a pleasant surprize. Really wish to do something nice for him? ...

I want to be more than FWB! how can I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - so me and this guy have been friends for about a yr. but recently this past week and a half we have decided to be fwb. this all started during the trip with some of his family and i told him we couldn't talk to each other when we got back to school ...

I was disgusted by the way my friends party!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - recently I went to a party where I saw some troubling things. I saw some girls and guys that I had respect for do things that really bothered me. I like to have fun and I will drink on occasion but I know where to draw the line. what bothered me ...

His mom caught us having oral sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - okay, so, me and my ex havent been dating for two years, and we havent really talked either, were teenagers, and his moms psycho, and becuz i got caught giving him oral sex, she dosent want him to talk to me, she practically has the people at our ...

How can I meet people my own age? I've run out of idea's!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I am at a total loss as to where to meet decent, single men in their 30's (or even meet women of my age that I could be friends with, preferably who are able to go out once in a while!). Any ideas? I have tried almost everywhere I can possibly ...

I don't want to leave her but I'm fed up of being treated like excrement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - Ok, not quite sure where to start as i'm usually the one giving advice never asking. Key points: *My girlfriend is 20 (21 in a week), and i am 20. *We have been together for 4 years 10 months. *We had a very active sex life for the fir...

I want a steady boyfriend and excitement on the side!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and I have one of those boyfriends that everyone says is a 'great guy'. And he is. He's generous, good-looking, absolutely adores me and has never betrayed my trust and I don't think ever wants to. I lost my virginity to him at 13 and we've ...

Why did my best guy friend stop talking to me? ...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - So..it's been a month. He's acting so different, I feel so useless just waiting for him to go online, but I don't talk to him. I really want to talk but I'm afraid to. He hinted me on about his feelings. it seemed like he was trying to tell m...

Is it possible for a guy to remain in love without experiencing "what else is out there"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for 18 months now and he is a great guy. Before this relationship I had been in several others (although not as long) and had been sexually active, but my boyfriend was a virgin when I started seeing him and I have ...

Its so hard to find someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - Hi I'm 22 going on 23 this March. While that doesn't seem old at all, just this summer I had my first boyfriend. We lasted only 2 months, though it was an experience I guess. He dumped me because we rushed it and he went from crazy about me the firs...

I like him but I turned down sex and eating out and I'm afraid he feels rejected.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I'll go ahead and say up front that I am inexperienced in dating, and take physical intimacy very slowly. Well, I went out dancing with this guy, and when he drew me aside for kissing, his hands started exploring and I was friendly about ...

My GF claims that I don't love her as much as she loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - just recently i am my girlfriend have been having problems. we meet in school and we are still schooling together. i love my girl friend but i got the feeling that she loves me more and she shows it more than do because i usually have more self ...

Does he like me, or do I want to believe he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I just started high school a week ago and I like this guy... But I don't know if he likes me or if he has a boyfriend and he's completley mysterious and its so hard to read him... I used to sit by him and he would always smile when I look at him a...

He can't take my virginity until he breaks up with his girlfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - Me and this boy ive known for years likes eachother problem is that he has a girl,see im a virgin and i wana lose my virginty to him. i really like him. we have fun and everything. i told him he cant take it til he breaks up with her but its ...

I'm so paranoid that he's going to cheat on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I don't know where to begin with this really, or even if it's going to turn out as a question.. But I think I'm really doing my own head in here, and it's horrible! I'm engaged and have a baby on the way, me and my man have got our own house, the ...

He says he hates his ex, but he still talks and texts her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, ok so this guy that i like has been with his gf for 8 months and while they were going out, me and him would act like a couple(kissing, flirting, hugging, holding hands,etc.)I thought he would develop feelings for me that way, stupid ...

I can't stop talking about my exes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I'm a 29 y.o. female. Before I met my boyfriend of 1.5+ years, I had 3 long term boyfriends, a bunch of short term relationships, and a ton of casual dates- in search of finding the guy i could really love. I had my first bf when I was 13 so that ...

Is a bit of nervousness in a guy unattractive to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

12 September 2010 (M) - Is a bit of nervousness in a guy unattractive to girls (better make that women)? If a guy is a bit nervous when he's talking, isn't it like you can just verbally run over him? Isn't the inability to stay solid/unbeaten kind of the definition o...

Will my boyfriend ever open up to me emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost three months. We have been intimate for six weeks. I really like him alot and admittedly, feel that I may be falling in love with him. He calls every other day and will send me a couple of emails ...

Was this wrong of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - okay. i started hanging out with this girl [lets call her lola] um so she introduced me to her friends. and then one that i hadnt met, she started going out with him [lets call him bob] so the first time i saw him i was with friends in our town but ...