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Dating: Help and advice

Am I meant for relationships?

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15 November 2010 (M) - My question is am i compatible with relationships. Every time i get into a relationship i end up feeling really tied down and don't want to go on with in the first week or two. It's kind of repetitive, i'll actually like someone then i just want to ...

I can't date because I'm hung up on a married man!

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15 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a confusing situation. A 21 year old guy has been texting me and we hung out once (I am 18). I feel like I could possibly like him, but I don't know. It's like my mind won't let me like him, because I am hung up on a married man. This guy ...

Eighteen and want to be pregnant

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15 November 2010 (F) - I'm eighteen yeast old. I have a real big desire to get pregnant with my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I've tried keeping myself busy but it doesn't seem to work. We've only been together for a short while. But it's not the relationship that ...

I like this guy in my office...how can I get him to notice me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - hi i never have any luck with men and i really like this guy in my office. we say hello when we pass each other in the hallway but thats about it...we sit at opposite ends of the office, how can i get him to notice me and get chatting??...

Just who is telling me the truth here?! Help!

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15 November 2010 (F) - My ex and I got back together but he dumped me the next day b/c he said 'Its too soon" and doesn't want to hurt me again. He said him and his ex may be over and not getting back together but he doesn't want to use me as a rebound. He claims he needs ...

We had a connection, is she avoiding me now?

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15 November 2010 (M) - Since I am new here, I will keep it simple. I know a girl for sometime now and we both certainly share a connection.(we enjoy each others company and often tease each other). However since our last meeting, I have asked her casually to go to a place ...

Why won't she believe..that I do really love her! Advise?

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15 November 2010 (M) - hi, i'm a 16 year-old male ... before i met my girlfriend she was with another guy but their relationship wasn't good he treated her badly and they had alot of arguments then broke up ... now everyday i'm telling her that i love her but she does...

We have different libidos how can I change that?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. My question is in regards to our sex life. I feel like I want sex too much, several times a day but I'm content with just once before bed. Thing is, I never feel like he wants it. He never touches ...

We had a wonderful first date! So why is he ignoring me now?

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15 November 2010 (F) - Well I recently went out with this guy and am trying to find out why he went Missing In Action on me, when I thought we had a lovely time. He picked me up from my house on the day of our date. He was dressed nice and smelled good. He was respectful ...

After 4 years of dating he avoids me! I need help to get over him!

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15 November 2010 (F) - I had a boy friend with whom i had steady relationship for 4yrs.After that when our college was over(after 4yrs) he stopped talking 2 me and started avoiding me..whatever i ask him he is just taking it too easy which i couldn't tolerate finally ...

I don't know how to be in a relationship, but I want to try! Which one of these guys will be best for me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I'm really confused right now. I have no idea who I want to choose. First, I have this guy whom I've known since high school, we're talking, and he's asking me out. Then, this jerk who really only wants me as his booty call is starting to act really ...

My crush hit on my childminder the other day...but I want him! How do I resolve this?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I had a baby recently and a guy who was a good friend of mine (well my crush) who wanted to go out with me back when I was preg..in fact he wanted a sexual relationship with me at the time but it never happened between us..anyway I met him the other ...

Turkish love?

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15 November 2010 (F) - hey, basically i met this turkish guy through my family that live in turkey, i met him back sep 2009, i never did think of anything of it because you hear the stories about turkish men. after i met him, he would ring all time, every single day, and ...

How do I go out with the friend of the guy I was dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I was seeing this guy and didn't fancy him at all...I tried to give him a chance and all but I didn't feel it.. anyway he fancied me more than I fancied him and now I have started to keep my distance more and more from him as I don't want to go out ...

Do I let her be and give her the space and let her come back in her own time?

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15 November 2010 (M) - Hi Ive got an issue with my girlfriend at the moment, we have been together now for almost 5 years... its been a pretty intense relationship really with plenty of ups and downs but we have never seperated in this time. At the moment we are taki...

This is the longest I've ever been seeing a guy, but I don't know where I stand with him?

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15 November 2010 (F) - Im going to try and brief this question up as much as possible. Im 18 years old, and im seeing this guy thats 20. We're not official yet, we're just getting to know each other, etc. We've been seeing each other for a little over two months now...

How do women define maturity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for ...

Why is she signing "with love" to another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - okay so I told my gf about a problem befor and how this guy always comment her on facebook as she is my wifey, So I askd her about it and told her just to get rid of him on her facebook. But recently she added him back and I read a comment saying...

Do's and don'ts of a long term relationship

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15 November 2010 (F) - So simple question, what do you guys think are do's and don'ts of a long term relationship(at least more than 4 months). ...

Am I being too much of a tease? And how should I let him know that I want to take things slowly?

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15 November 2010 (F) - ok so been on 6 dates with this guy- im 21, hes 22-- have no intention of getting more intimate until much later on in the relationship (im a virgin and believe in waiting until love)... but last night we were making out on his bed (all clothes on) ...

Should I wait 2 year to go out with her?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I met a fantastic woman while I was working part-time a few months ago and I have had a great time hanging out with her. Just 3 days ago, she called me, asked me out to dinner, and told me that she has feelings for me. I was speechless although i ...

Mixed feelings and don't know which way to turn

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15 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted a few months ago about my boyfriend and things are no better really. We have been together for 14 months now. I am 38, divorced and he is 43, divorced. We are meant to be getting engaged at Christmas but I am having doubts. I have ver...

His current girlfriend is clearly not right for him, and there is so much attraction between us! How should I handle this situation?

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15 November 2010 (F) - Hey Guys, I have a bit of a situation , not sure what to do. There was a guy I was hooking up with just over a year ago , started to fall in love with him - we didn't go anywhere but seem to be growing closer and closer and calls me his best ma...

I don't know how to snog and I think my boyfriend will get bored with me if I dont!

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15 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he has been telling a lot of his friends that he wants to snog me, i have just said maybe next week or something like that but soon he is going to get bored and will finish with me. I don't know how to snog so its hard for ...

How do I make her see that we should give it a go?

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15 November 2010 (M) - How do i get the girl i have been in love with for the last 2 years. she said that she thinks that we are to good of friends but i think we should just try it out and see what happenes...

I don't want to lose our friendship, but now it is really awkward and I don't know what to do!

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15 November 2010 (F) - Heyy i was wondering if you could help. Recently i was talking to my boy bestie and teasing him about this girl that keeps on texting him and asking if he liked her coz it looked like she liked him. But i was just joking about it, then i asked ...

I think I'm caught in a love triangle. Help!!

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15 November 2010 (F) - I'm dating a man who is about to be divorced within the month. We have been together for 9 months. Although he was the one that stepped out on his marriage lately his guilt and depression has been overwhelming. I can't help but feel jealous and ...

This guy drives me crazy! Am I just a fling to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Hes just a player and Im a fling to him? Im so confused! help! I need some guys opinion. I dont know why this guy had to be like this to me. ok, a bit long story but after all I think hes a jerk but I still kinda wanna call him. I hooked ...

He flirted with me, and now it's like I don't exist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - okay, so, a little over a year ago, I met this guy, and we can call him, "Jack". so when I first walked into class the first day of school that year, he was in my homeroom, and I looked at him and thought, woah, there's something special about this ...

One second he is in love with me and in the next, he's completely cold and rude

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15 November 2010 (F) - I dont know how to start my question but im a 21 years old girl and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months now.Lately he is being so distant. i dont know if im being needy but he doesnt even bother to go online to talk to me and thats ...

My parents are threatening to disown me if I pursue this relationship

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15 November 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm so glad I found this site. Thank you for your help! I am in love with a man who is divorced with three wonderful children. Also, I'm much younger than he is. I've known him for 6 years, we have been best friends for the past 3 years...

Is he over his ex girlfriend?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I reciently found out my guy best friend and myself like each other. One day we were on his bed and he just kind of told me. I knew I liked him for a while now, so I obviously said how I felt about him. He always says he really likes me alot and I ...

Due to recovery for surgery I haven't seen her in weeks. Will she still like me?

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15 November 2010 (M) - There is a girl in my class, I really like her. It seems to me that she likes me, but I haven't been able to tell. We always hang out together and I even walk to her locker with her sometimes. I already know that she doesn't have a boyfriend right ...

Life with my bf is like having a room-mate, not a partner! Help!

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15 November 2010 (F) - Recently, I found a text message in my boyfriend's phone to one of his friend's wishing the friend's wife a "Happy Birthday" and also to tell her best friend he said "What's up?" I did not confront him at the time because I was embarassed over it ...

Does he regret what he did?

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15 November 2010 (F) - ok so i have a boyfriend and we went to a party last night and his cousin was there. he is a flirt so basically the whole night he flirted with me. he would even touch my back and caress me. my boyfriend couldnt see. so we were all buzzed or drunk. ...

I feel lonely for my bf! How do I deal with this?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I live in the same city as my boyfriend. However, I find it VERY hard when to go from spending the weekend together and falling asleep cuddled up together sharing a bed, to nothing for about 5 days (his job is hectic during the week). I feel mega ...

After 3rd date I feel like running for the hills!

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15 November 2010 (F) - I started seeing a guy since Halloween. It's been three weeks and three dates. By the third date, I'm not feeling it, and he has a picture of us saved on his cell phone screen saver... I'm 22 turning 23 and have never dated before. Am I over ...

He caught me in a lie, and he won't talk to me now! Can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - After going through a tough break up a year ago, I connected with someone I met at college. We started talking and hanging out, and we became very close friends. A month ago, he decided that we needed to take a break. He told me that he didn't ...

Am I that boring? And not pretty enough for him? Help me figure this out!

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15 November 2010 (F) - I feel like I shouldn't be asking people I don't know for advice and comfort, but I'm finding it hard to talk to my family about it and I just need some consoling now. I think I like a guy in my college who I've been dating for a few weeks/month ...

Is he making a fool of me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - Well right now I just need advice because I'm really confused. I'm only 20 and I feel hung up on this. I was going out with this guy for over a year and then he left to go to uni, it was 2.5 hours away from me and we struggled through the distance ...

Is he losing interest in me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I posted the other day about my boyfriend and I and our difficulty communicating (titled "how do I take our relationship to a deeper level"). I'm still troubled about my relationship with my boyfriend. He has such a hard time opening up and I feel ...

This guy I like, signs off when I messaged him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I sent him a IM on his wall..he deleted it? i sent said hi in IM he signed off? I always had a crush on this guy last i seen him two years ago and i was so happy because he really liked me back and then he disappeared. i feel so depressed we use...

When I want to break up with her..I get scared of being alone. What can I do?

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15 November 2010 (M) - Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been together for four years but it's a long distance relationship. We started off as friends on the internet using a Chat site. I made lots of friends but diddnt expect anything to come of it, next we were int...

I have a pregnant lover and I also have a fiancee. How do I sort ths out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Help needed Understanding my feelings Hi, what a tangled mess I have got into.... I live with my fiance of 10 years and 2 of my kids aged 7 and 4. I met a girl 14 years yonger than myself 3 years ago and we clicked, im 38 now. We have so mu...

He talks to me through my grandmother! Does he like me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - Do you think this guy likes me ?. He works in a shop in the town centre where i live. The first time i went in there, i was with my grandmother, who he already knew, and they spoke to each other a bit, and i noticed after i walked out of the shop ...

Why can't you just love me back?

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15 November 2010 (M) - So guys, I've been stuck for five months now on one girl, lets call her M. I really need someone to read this question carefully, and give me some good advice. I really need help with this, more than any relationship. I used to barely notice M,...

My boyfriend and I are both down in the dumps... It's a problem.

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15 November 2010 (F) - Usually, one of us gets upset and the other is there to make them smile but for a little while now, both my boyfriend and I have been really upset lately. Not with each other, with life, but I feel it's hurting our relationship. I have so much t...

Her place or mine???

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15 November 2010 (M) - I have gotten my new girlfriend to come on a date with me. I have never taken anyone on a date before, and i have no idea of what i should do. I have the following at my disposal: 3 different restaraunts, amazing natural views, nice walks along a ...

If he didn't want to go out with me, why did he ask me in the first place?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I went out on a lunch date (first date) with this guy last weekend. Everything seemed to be ok. We talked, there was very little awkward silences. For a first date, I think it went ok. During lunch, he said several times that we should do it aga...