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Archived questions from: 28 November, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can someone please translate this guy-speak?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey, can any guys or girls reading this please translate some guy speak for me? I've been with my bf for 2 months. He showed me a text he sent to his female friend who he has known for years about a party they're going to next week. He'd tex...

How do I know I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 years, he was my 1st boyfriend, intially i thought i loved him, i just loved being with him and spending all my time but in the last year i don't find him attractive but he is the most sweetest and he ...

Should I see if chemistry develops? Or break it off now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - On Saturday, this guy and I went on a very short date - an hour long. We're both 16, juniors. I said let's not kiss, because he had a coldsore. So for half an hour we went round town in the cold with his arm round me - this guy is in a class with ...

Do guys say cute stuff that they don't mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - So you know how everyone says, guys always say stuff they don't mean. Well I was wondering is that really true, cause now I'm starting to think sometimes when my boyfriend says cute stuff that maybe he doesn't mean it. I know this kinda sounds ...

I am used to being treated like a lady, not expected to pay for everything because his ex wife hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I ask him for some time, he is 44 and since we started he asked me to buy him, coffee, lunch,etc. We spoke about it and after two months he told me about an airfare reimbursement situation he had with his ex wife. The airline reimbursed both tickets ...

Why do people always put relationships down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Why is it that people always put down relationships? My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months and everything is going great but all everybody wants is for us to fall apart. My boyfrined and I both don't understand it. Why would people ...

How do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - how do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid? met this woman on facebook...of all places, and we decided to meet up. She was perfect. couldnt ask for a prettier or more polite lady. from the off I knew ...

What is the appropriate reaction when others flirt with your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I want to know what people think is the approproate reaction to other people flirting with your partner (whether or not your partner flirts back) I'm lucky enough, for the past year, to have been going out with a very good looking and generally lo...

A girl gave me prolonged eye contact. What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I caught this girl staring at me. She did not look away, and I got uncomfortable and I looked away. Her face was blank. It was for 5-6 seconds. She did not want to look away. Why would she do this?...

Why doesn't the hot young guy ever say anything to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I am incredibly shy and I am not a cougar. I had a crush on a Hot guy who rides my bus occasionally. I am way past the age when I should have a crush. Plus he is young, way younger than me. Yes, I know, I am clueless about men for a woman my age. ...

Can someone please tell me I'm not alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I am just looking for someone to reassure me that there is nothing wrong with me. A little about myself... I am a 26 year old male, attractive (at least I have been told so every now and then) healthy both physically and mentally, very active ...

31 and NEVER had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - While I have gone on 2 dates when I was 23, I still have no idea really what dating is like. Here is my love bio so to speak: I am a single, straight, successful and educated, 31 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever ...

How many texts/calls a day is considered too needy or clingy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - What is considered too needy or clingy? How many phone calls/texts a day? And how much can we expect phone calls/texts/communication back from a person without expecting too much?...

Who do I go to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Should i go back and be with my son father or be with this other guy? now i been with my son father for 3yrs and the reason for our beak up is that he was not being the man i needed him to be for me,,and he always told me i dnt give him a chance to ...

He knows I have a boyfriend, so why does he want to meet up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys, so this isn't a very serious question, but I'm just a bit confused about what this guy is doing. I'm happily in a relationship for almost 2 years now, we're doing pretty good, but recently this other guy is hitting on me, maybe? Met him on ...

What should I do next to contact him? Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I am seeing a guy since 1 month. Though we were not committed to each other...I mean I was ready to get committed, but he was little bit confused. However he told me on our 1st date that he liked me and also asked me to have our 2nd date.He kissed ...

I just want to know if I’m a fool or should I just move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - So basically I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a month now, he's 22 and I’m 18. Were on the same course in uni but in different years, I’m in my first he’s in his last: S We met when we were drunk and swapped numbers, he’s such a lovely gu...

Next step in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I'm seeing a gal since more than a month.. we've been out for dinners, pubs, day-long trips on my motor bike, late night ice-creams n other friendly chats.. I've been liking her a lot lately and getting attracted to her physically/sexua...

I'm not ready for most things but I'm afraid he'll leave me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - hello i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 3 weeks. weve already hugged and kissed goodbye. but he txts me saying we should hold hands and make out and have oral sex. im not ready, when im with him i feel akward even thoough i love him.i ...

I have feelings for my manager, does he like me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I work in a bookshop, and I've developed a real crush on the assistant manager there. He's 35, so 10 years older than me (although I'm mature for my age and tend to like older people) and also my immediate superior so I don't know if it would be a ...

I know we're going to break up... I can feel it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I know were going to break up i can feel it. I don't know what to do, my heart feels like it's in tiny pieces. I feel hopless once again. I love her and this thing with her ex... I dont think she understands why it hurts me so much. I don't know ...

My comments on other girls are gonna make us break up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I need help with my girlfriend. Me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 10 months, i know she loves me dearly as do i. Now the problem is that around 2 weeks into our relationship ( yes 2 weeks its been going on that long) i made com...

How do I open up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, ...

I'm scared my guy will leave me because of some perfect bimbo!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Why do I get so jealous over the stupidest things, although i know they prob wont amount to anything i still get nervous that my guy will leave me just like that because of some perfect bimbo. is this normal or am I just a freak? ...

My boyfriend keeps referring to the issues in my life as "baggage"1

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I'm going through a tough time right now and need some advice. I am In love with a man who constantly refers to the things going on in my life as baggage. To break it down these are the things he has issues with and how I'm dealing with them. Firs...

My girlfriend wants my baby to remember me by

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - ok im going out with this girl in new york but im moving to florida and were in love and she wants to have a baby that she can keep so it like a piece of me i cant even tell my parents anything how would i tell them how would i tell her mom i dont ...

He says he has bigger problems to deal with than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Me and my ex where together for about 3years During those 3years we lied to each other I was a very jealous person who did not let him do anything. We had breakups and eventually got back together. During that time we ended living together I was ...

It just seems too good to be true!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I don't know what exactly to think about my relationship. I'm absolutly in love with my boyfriend we have been together for 14 months happily. We both plan on getting married as soon as possiable. Then we plan to go college together to be ...

Every dream is about me going out with a different guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, hi I have a question about a few of my dreams that really have me going. I just can't figure them out. I am currently not dating anyone. Well this last past week I have had a dream everynight. Each dream is about me going out with a ...

We only got back together because he promised not to lie, but he is telling lies again already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 5yrs, he was married for 19 yrs and I for 21 years. During the time we have been together he has cheated on me (he says only 1 time but I'm not sure) and have gotten busted lying to me ...

It feels like we are broken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey I'm 22 year old and I'm daten a younger guy he's 19 years old and since the begging our relationship has Been a lot of lies on both our parts really. Now I'm madly inlove and I change for him I gave a lit away for him cuz I wanted to i did it ...

Cant stop thinking about her its driving me crazy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I find myself feeling very lonely when im not talking with my gf. I think about her constantly and lately cuz of the bad weather, I haven't been able to see her. It's driving me crazy. Idk what to do. I have been getting headaches from thinking ...

What can I get her for Christmas that doesn't cost a dime?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Ok I have a problem i have been in love with this girl for three years. I have followed her around i guess you can say i worship her. I love her more than life itself. She has been wonderful to me. She is one of the most beautiful people in the ...

Please, I need advice. I am completely Torn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I apologize for how long this is, I just feel like the details are important, and I could really use the advice! Over the summer I met this guy while on a group vacation, he's related to some very close family friends; we have several connections,...

Jekyll when sober, Hyde when drunk. Which is his true side?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for around 8 months now and I really like him, ALOT. But when he gets drunk he is soooo mean to me for no reason and when sober he is the nicest person I have ever met.. so I guess I am wondering what side of him is the ...

I want him so, will this madness ever end!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I am addicted to giving blowjobs. My boyfriend and I recently started to engage in oral sex. He pleases me greatly. No complaints. But when I go at him he usually has to give me a hand to help finish him off. He is WONDERFUL and I would love nothing ...

Am I being too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have beeen going out for two months now. The first month was so good, she'd always come over or she'd invite me to hers. Now things have turned the other way and we only see each other maybe twice a week. I text her every day. ...

She had an affair... I am thinking about joining them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years had an affair with her friend. I found out from facebook logs and found text messages. When I confronted her she said it was only a kiss. Then I find sexy texts and confront her and she admitted it went further but didn...

How long until he is ready to commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Just wondering how long it takes before a guy actually wants to commit...not just as in be an official couple, but when they "know" that this is the girl I want to marry. Background: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. Since the...