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Dating: Help and advice

I find it tough to find attractive women who fancy me! Should I lower my standards??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - Hi guys can you help? I'm 32 (embarrassed that a guy my age is even on here) and feel I'm getting on now and need to find a decent girlfriend. I’ve been single for 2/3 years now but to be honest girlfriends have always been hard to find. (before ...

I want her to have everything she has ever wanted, but if she goes away out of my life I think it'll crush me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - Hello. I started dating this wonderful girl recently. She is everything I ever wanted. We had a bit of an odd start as friends. Then she started to pursue me as a little more than friends. Things were going well, until a man from her past came along ...

Seriously... what's going on here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Seriously I might as well just give vital points: -been seeing each other over a year -get along VERY well -when we're together, he treats me as if im the only one that matters -waited a while before having sex -met his brothers, have yet ...

I feel like I've cheated, but I didn't go on a date with my now girlfriend yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - I've met my now girlfriend 6 months ago. We met on a Friday night, out at a bar, after quite a few drinks. We talked, ended up back at a mutual friends house, and kissed goodnight. The next morning we exchanged numbers, exchanged texts the next ...

My friends always choose the wrong men...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I have a few female friends who seem to constantly be attracted to people who hurt them (ex. cheat on them). They seem to like bad boys but they end up hurt. I hate seeing my friends hurt. Any advice? ...

Best mate is too pally with boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I don't know how to put this exactly, and i don't know if it is all my own fault. My boyfriend and i have been together for 5months now, and i trust him utterly and completely, but recently, i have been having jealous feelings, towards him and my ...

Unappreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i been dating for a year and 6 month. we always get in argument when he goes out to hang out with his friends because first of all his friends are all single and they talk about getting with girls all the time. btw we are in a long ...

If your boyfriend was blind, would you stay or would you go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My name is Alexis and I'm 18 years old. I met the man of my dreams of 21, four years ago and we have been together ever since. When we first started dating, I knew I could picture myself getting married to him, and having a family ...

How do we get some more alone time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Okay, I have this boyfriend.. I am completely in love with him. We have done stuff, sexually. But both of our parents don't trust us alone together, we need alone time. What can I do? ...

How do we fix this without breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I need help, a lot of help. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months. It has been all lovey dovey, but recently we have been arguing a lot more. I hate it. I don't know why we argue so much, I don't really even know what we argue ...

I don't want to seem needy or clingy by calling him, texting him even more or demanding a response.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - I've had a boyfriend for about 1 month now, though I've only seen him three times. We're both the same age and last time I saw him (last Tuesday) we had our first kiss. He seemed a little nervous/embarrassed after our kiss, but he sent me a message ...

How do I leave this abusive relationship for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my on and off boyfriend for almost two years now. He can be such a sweet and charming man but he can also be a psychotic bully as well. All of the problems started when I moved in with him away from family and friends. I always ...

I'm confused regarding my boyfriend's fantasy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - Is it weird that my boyfriend has a fantasy to watch me with another guy? Usually they want to see 2 girls but not another guy with their girl. Anyone experienced this ever? ...

Tall and short women hate short guys equally

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of...

Need help with "dirty" truth or dare please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Hey, well me and my boyfreind text a lot, and we were thinking of games to play during it and i thought of truth or dare. The problem is i kinda wanna do "dirty" truth or dare but i cant think of any over the phone. Any ideas? Thanks. ...

Help!!! I wish I knew what was going on in his head, is he just trying to be friends with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Ok I need some advice. Me and my ex have been together on/off for 4 years. He broke up with me like a month and a half ago and it was because we argued too much :(. I was so heartbroken about everything and even begged him like an idiot lol. ...

My boyfriend is non stop and I'm losing my mind!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place. im with a guy i love him dearly. hes good with my daughter, he works, he dont have any drug habits, hes smart, hes everything ive wanted in a guy. the problem i have with him though, is that he is always busy, he ...

Don't want to come on too strong but I want to take our friendship further.

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1 November 2010 (F) - I really like a friend of mine but can not figure out why he won't make a move. I'm single, he's single, we've been talking online and texting for months but I can't figure out where I stand with him. I usually communicate 1st but he always ...

3 boob jobs and my girlfriend STILL wants them bigger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has had 3 boob jobs and has DD size breasts. She now wants to get yet another boob job taking her up to ideally F size breasts. I find this too much, not being a fan of fake tits anyway. Yet she has got upset and says she is getting ...

How effective is the birth control shot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and we've been together 2 years. I just started the birth control shot back in July so I just had my 2nd shot on October 12th. This past Saturday, we had sex with no condom ...

My first crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Hey. I've known this guy since i was in year 1, he was my first crush. I told him a few months ago that i loved him because i do, he said he loved me too then we dated for like a month, and then he said he doesnt know what happened but he left me f...

Was I wrong in asking his dad to call first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - My question: Was I wrong in asking my boyfriend's father to ask us before coming over? My boyfriend of 4 years and I recently decided to move in together. We've been considering it for the last year, and the opportunity came up about 6 months a...

Is oral sex so bad???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend. Our relation makes 1 year. we've gone so far during this one year (no sex)..only foreplay. i trust him a lot and i know he will never betray me. we are very open in sex topic. he is now abroad. a few days he was always askin...

Is thing going anywhere or should I let go? If it is going somewhere, then what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - What are my feelings? What are hers? Did I upset her by mentioning the other girl when we had dinner? Is she having feelings for me or concern? A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a yea...

Will my prayers work so we can be together? And does he even like me if he has not shown any interest in 10 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - dear readers, im madly in love with this guy for the past 10 years. we used to speak to each other as kids when i was as young as 9 yrs old, but we stopped now as we grew up. The thing is i have been praying continuously for the past so many yea...

My mother knows my crush's family, I have asked so many times to go with her to meet him but she ignores me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Please help me! I'll tell you what happened to me. Before one year, I suddenly had a big crush on an old childhood friend. The crush was becoming huger and huger, but at summer he changed school and now we couldn't talk. The whole summer, I had de...

I'm seeing her again tomorrow, how do I show her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - guys i need some urgent tips , today i met this beautiful girl , shes so pretty though , we met in a shooting , i was playin the main support and shes is the main character ( shes a professional model ) , anyway i was all the time around her since i ...

How do I stop getting ahead of myself? We have only been together 3 months but I cant help think about the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to rein myself in. I have a new bf of 3 months. I'd been single for 9 months after splitting with a guy I was with for 8 years. I never expected to meet anyone, and he is lovely, kind, handsome, caring...

Should I consult my daughter about possibly dating her close friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Here is a story. I am a woman in my early forties. I ve been told i look 10 years younger, and everytime i say i have a 24 year old daughter, eyebrows are raised. I m divorced from my childs father for many many years, but we managed to stay g...

Why am I so unlucky in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - What's wrong with me? I'm 25, single and lonely. I have a 3yr old whom I have raised as a single parent from pregnancy til now (with help and support from my amazing family), I have a good job, an active social life, a positive outlook, an above ...

Is there anything I can do to break these attributes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - I come out to be a reserved, quiet guy. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, but sometimes I feel bad that I don't really participate much in conversations. Usually, its because I don't have much to say. When I do have something to say, it seems ...

How much does he like me on a scale of 1-10?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I know I asked this before but I left some details out. I don't want to keep my hope up. Okay so I like this boy A LOT but he has a girlfriend. But before I knew that I though he liked me. Please don't make fun of me or be rude thanks... I had to ...

Why does he keep hurting my feelings if he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - If he says he loves me so much ,why does he constantly hurt my feelings?He is very well aware of it and not making any progress.He is so loving and caring with everybody else but me,now that is a whole other story .He is very jealous and can't stand ...

Oh no! His ex is 5 months pregnant with his baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - This is probably the hardest thing I have ever been through. My boyfriend and I met this year, our first year in college. He was my neighbor in the dorms before he moved out to another hall so we got to know each other very well. We started talking ...

Am I the bad guy for asking him to quit smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - Hi so ive asked questions in the past week about my LDR boyfriend and i but this has also been bugging me. When he said smoked cigars i thought he actually did, but he smokes cigarettes too. Cigars i dont mind, cigarettes i mind. And i had told h...

My parents cant stand my boyfriend and they have forbidden me from seeing him ever again. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - So I'm 16 and I'm in love. Yeah yeah, I know it's corny, and I'm sure you've seen hundreds of questions before from lovestruck teenagers, but this is for real. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and it's been amazing. I love him with ...

He gave me his cell number, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I talk with this guy at my work sometimes. I asked him for his cell number and he gave it to me. Do you think he likes me? Or does he just like me as a friend. Should I text him? He hasn't texted met yet :(....

My boyfriend's behavior has turned me into a clingy, obsessed person. I hate that!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend messed me around for a year, flirting with girls, metting up with his ex in secret. We talked it through and we're still going out, but it has turned me into a clingy, obsessed and overthoughtful person. And I HATE that. I hate what I ...

What does"I don't want to hurt you" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Ok so I really don't understand how stupid,yes stupid,guys can be. So about two days ago my boyfriend texts me saying "Hey,lets just be friends" my heart immediately sank and I texted him back asking why. His respong?... "I don't want to hurt you." ...

Is she growing fed up of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship right now. I Love my girlfriend deeply and care about her very much and think about her all the time. I've sent letters to her, and she knows how much i feel for her. She was recently up here from mexico for two ...

Why buy the cow when the milk is free???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and things are really good. We've discussed where we see our relationship going and we both agree on marriage in the short term future (say next 4 years). We've also talked about living together and ...

Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...

She seems to prefer to lose me completely than even giving anything a try.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (M) - I've had a VERY close female friend for the last 10 months, in the past we've admitted we both like each other more than friends but never really did anything about it, she even went as far as to tell me I have all the qualities she's looked for in ...

How can I get rid of these irrational fears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I have irrational fears of my boyfriend wanting to leave me, cheating on me, and looking at other women. He's never given me any reason to not trust him, would let me go through his phone at any given moment without question. These fears though are ...