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Dating: Help and advice

We're an odd looking couple but I love him so is it possible to get over this or minimize it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much and have been with him for about a year now. The issue is, I think we look weird together. I'm 5'8.5" and he is 5'3"-5'4". He's not really skinny though and I wear a size 3. The thing is, I LOVE high heels so I look ...

I love him, but my relationship is SO BORING (the sex too)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19, and we've been together for a year. I truly do love him, don't want to leave him, and really can't picture myself with another guy. I've even tried talking to other guys (when we were on a two week break), really cute ...

Why does my boyfriend prefer porn over his hot girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Okay, My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years now and been living together for about a year. At first we had a really good sexual relationship and had sex often. Now we have sex like once a month, but all other aspects of the relationship ...

Why do guys behave this way?

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16 November 2010 (F) - I went out with a man on four dates. I knew him vaguely through a mutual friend and had bumped into him in our village a few times and chatted with him before he invited me out. I had a great time each time we went out. He initiated the dates, paid ...

Do red-headed men dig dark skinned women?

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16 November 2010 (F) - i like this red-headed guy but i don't know if he would like me because i am dark complected.so my question is do red headed guys like dark complected girls?...

Why do guys just stop talking to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - So, I met this guy about two weeks ago and we had so much in common. We had both just gotten out of a long relationship with similar issues and I opened up to him really fast although I usually take a long time to do so. We were talking everyday for ...

I thought I wanted to move on from my ex but now I'm not so sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Im seein this guy and have been for only a couple of months and hes already said he loves me because i am the first girl to treat him with respect. I have told him i am not in love with him and hes noticed ive been feeling down so i ended up ...

Love stricken crap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - "What infuriates me the most is how two people are supposed to be best friends go through so much crap within such a small space of time. Petty, pathetic, childish crap." Love-stricken crap. The worst thing about this is how, in theory, it...

Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is ...

Heeeelp! Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I need advice on what to do... I've been with my boy 3.5 years now, he was my first love, first everything. I am 21. A few months into our relationship he got drunk at a party and spooned a girl he used to be intimate with...he promised nothing...

She was very standoffish and made me feel like shit. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together just over 5 months. We started out fighting and when things are good, there great. We found out she is pregnant, and at first things were okay. We found out after we had a blow out and said it was done for ...

He's texting other women and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Hey there... I am so confused I don't know what to do! My boyfriend is very up tight about his phone and so he has a password on it and doesn't even want me to touch his phone. And so I went through his texts and I saw 3 texts that stood out to me. ...

I have made some mistakes within the relationship that she doesn't know about. Do I tell her before I ask her to settle down?

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16 November 2010 (M) - I'm ready to make a life-long committment to my girlfriend and plan on proposing to her. Let's just say that I have struggled through committment "issues" for a while, but now I feel that I am ready and love her deeply. Can't imagine a better ...

How should a single guy's bedroom look?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Women, if you were at the house of a guy you liked and peeked in his bedroom, what would make a better impression on you: if it looked as though he entertained females there occasionally (candles, incense sticks, queen-size bed, tiny bottle of ...

Should I talk to him about taking the physical side of our relationship slowly? Or should it just be left unsaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - so im 21, this is my first "relationship" (although we're not exclusive)-- been going out with this guy for a bit over a month (6 dates).. i am a virgin waiting for love, but i havent discussed my history with him yet... i want to take the physical ...

Does "I like you a lot" mean he is bordering on saying "I love you" but he is too scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Just out of curiousity i would like to know if a man that you've been involved with(say a year or more)tells you he "likes you a lot' would you think that there was more to what he was saying than what he was letting on to? I have had people tell ...

How can I become a good kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - how can I become a good kisser ? easy steps , hard steps , any steps ? what do guys want in kissing ? how do I tell him I want to kiss him ? what do guys look for in a kisser ? etc . please help ! thanks ...

Why cant I seem to hold onto a man? I'm not picking the wrong men, they are picking me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I seem to be caught in a cycle of rejection and I need help to break out of it! My long-term relationship ended nearly three years ago and this year I decided to try dating. In the last few months I have been rejected by four men and I can't figure ...

I don't know if her dad would be ok with us dating, and then there is the distance issue.....any suggestions?

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16 November 2010 (M) - Ok, There is this girl in my life. She is 6 yrs my younger. I met her through her dad. We used to work together. We still remain friends the father and I. We have known each other for 4 yrs. now. I used to go to her dad's house and have beers after ...

How do I tell him I'm so in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I'm so in love with my boyfriend at this point. We love each other and what not. But we haven't told each other that we're "in love" with one another. Because well... we aren't. Or wasn't at the time. We think "i love you" and "I'm in love with you" ...

Where is this relationship heading?

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16 November 2010 (M) - Well ill try and make this as short as possible. About 3 months ago I was really into this girl(girl A) for a little bit then I got introduced to her friend(girl B) through friends of mine and I ended up devoloping feelings for both of them, so...

How can I let her know how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - So I have recently gotten out of a relationship. In which time I've met an absolutely incredible girl, she has a boyfriend but always talks to me about how she is only with him because she feels like she owes it to him. She has come over to my house ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my dream or just let it slip?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (?) - Hello i have a dream question. First off, Im a very caring loving person dispite how vocal and rude i can be. So yknow, when somethings wrong with some one i'll tell them 'i love you' because i care about them and no matter what, i'll be there. ...

International Day of Tolerance

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - I am sure there are some who know what day the 16th of November is, and I am also sure that there are some who don't. The 16th of November was declared the 'International Day of Tolerance' and its purpose is to spread peace amongst all races and ...

He's so hot and cold with me! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - so there's this guy I've liked for a while now. we were such good friends until he started being a jerk. he knew I liked him but probably thinks I don't anymore because of how he hurt my feelings. I forgave him and he was nice to me again. I think ...

He flirts with her all the time and I feel like second best here! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, my boyfriend has this female friend hes always flirting with. ever since the beginning of our relationship it has been causing serious problems..ive even broke up with him over leaving flirtatious picture comments on her profile.he ...

I can't trust him because he let me down! Am I being irrational here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I am currently engaged to a man seven years older than I, and we've been together for three years. About a year and a half ago, my father passed away from a long-term illness. My fiancée knew my father, and of his illness, and that time was qu...

Why do I want this guy if hes a manwhore?! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Why do i want this guy if hes a manwhore?! i cant get him out of my head and its driving me, and my bf insane! i cant stop thinking about him hes one of my best friends and its becoming more and more difficult to hang out with him because i kn...

Who should I choose...my bf or this other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Ok, I have sort of a problem. I've been dating this guy, we'll call him John, for almost a year. I love him so much and for the most part we seem to mesh well the only problem is is that its sort of a long distance relationship. He lives about 2 ...

He doesn't like my flat bustline...help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - My partner and I have been together 3 yrs and I thought our relationship was ok. Out of the blue he said that when he made love to me it was like doing it with a little boy. He wont explain what he means, I've had 4 kids and havent got much of a ...

This toxic relationship with him is exhausting..but I love him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for almost two years. When I first met him, we were perfect together. I am usually friends with a guy first before I go out with them, but this guy we just jumped right into out relationship as soon as we met. By one month, ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend doesnt want to change as in i asked him to be nicer, to pay more attention to me and to be more loving, and he just tells me he dont know if he can? so now i told him i will not go to his house or see him but he really doesnt seem 2 ...

Women are like bug zappers and men are flies.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - So, just got out of a year long relationship a couple of months and I'm suddenly remembering how annoying trying to date. I approach the steps as well as can be. I meet new women all the time and it always ends up the same. We laugh together and ...

Why won't he add me on Facebook??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - hey there's this senior at school, i kinda like him and i added him on facebook but it's been like a month and he still hasn't added me or even rejected the request i added him again and still nothing...i know i sound pretty pathetic, he adds people ...

Male pattern baldness!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Hey people, I can't help but feel that I'll be single for the rest of my life. Here's my situation: I'm in my early twenties and started balding a couple of years back. Instead of opting for hair transplants and whatnot, I chose to shave my head an...

Did the trauma of heartbreak, cause my hair to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - ~Did Heart Break Revert Me to Being Strawberry Shortcake" I was born with a head full of deep bright red hair which remained this color up until I turned 14 years old at which time it all gradually turned to a very dark brown color which if m...

I want him back! What can I do?

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16 November 2010 (F) - Hey guys:) so I like this boy..Cody. We r ALWAYS off and on. Long story short: we dated when I was in 8th grade. He was in 9th. I was not over my ex one bit so I dumped him. it was your Typical middle school relationship. Then we tried again that ...

She said yes!

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16 November 2010 (M) - well I got a yes finally from the girl I could easily spend the rest of my life just listening to her. She makes me think and couldn't be any prettier in my eyes. well the yes isn't to a date unless you would label it as that. I asked if she w...

"You really got a hold on me."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - hello all, Well there is this girl I like and she knows that I like/liked her but she drives me to do things I wouldn't normally do. Im not talking about stupid things like that I might get in trouble for but I would/will do what ever she wants me ...

Third time is a charm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - Okay so there is this boy and I've liked him since last year.And I've never had a boy friend before. I finally got his number this year and we started texting eachother. I asked him out the first time and he said yes so we started dating turns out ...