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Dating: Help and advice

Nightmares About my Boyfriend's Past Have Completely Invaded My Mind.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Sorry this is long, but I am in real need of help. My boyfriend used to go out every night last summer, either to a house party or a night club with his friends. In September of that year we met, and began dating. I have never been a jealous p...

How and when to approach this guy in school?

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2 November 2010 (F) - I've known this guy for about 4-5 years, and I met him through school. I just started liking him about a month or two ago. He's kindof known as a 'flirt' in my classes, which makes it difficult to tell who he really likes. We talk some, and I prob...

After 10 years, how do I get him to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend we've been together off and on for 10 years but I feel like he has a double life or that he won't let me still into his life..how do I get him to open up to me?...

How to deal with my mother's prejudice against interracial partnership?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Im 18 years old and a British-born Indian and hes 20 years old and a British-born Jamaican. We've been casually dating for a little over a month and things are starting to get a little serious as time goes on. The question is, how...

How do you grind (dancing)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I have this thing at my school very soon they call it the black out dance and I don't know how to grind this guy said he will dance with me if I go I'm really scared that when we dance I will mess up and he wont want to dance with me anymore... so ...

How can I feel confident when guys clearly want something I'm not?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I find it very hard to feel confident in myself. I can't help but notice that most guys my age (and even older, who you'd think would be more mature) think that plastic, fake looking women are "perfect". I see it countless times on Facebook, blogs, ...

Jealousy over boyfriend's past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - I only ask this because I'm not sure how to react or respond to my boyfriend. He admitted something to me about him and his sister when he was a freshmen in high school. He was drunk when he told me this and I'm not sure if it was because he w...

What do I do??? I don't want to lose my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend went to a party over halloween weekend, she had to leave that night so she didnt drink but I did. Before we got there I told her I wasnt going to drink, but she said she wanted me to have fun and drink. I made sure it was ok ...

I have a big question about men cheating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I have a big question about men cheating. i want to start by admiting that not all guys do, and that i know a lot of girls do to. also, i want to clearly explain why most cheating girls do.. if its not for revenge, its because they're vulnerable. ...

What do I wear to go out on this hot date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hey people... I am going on this date with this guy and I have NO idea what to wear do you have any idea what is hot to wear this season...? I dont wanna Be too revealing and I don't wanna be too covered up =) BTW I am 16.. Help please......

He always cums way too quickly! Is there a cure for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My Fiance Cums way too fast, sometimes soon as he sticks it inside me so is this because of he is almost 50 years old and is there a cure to this issue so we can have pleasurable Sex for long periods of time again??...

He prefers the street life to me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm 7 months pregnant and im so in love with my baby daddy. We've been together for 1 year and 2 weeks already and when we first started it was wonderful i loved it.. He didnt have a job but i made sure he had everything he needed we was ...

I'm in love with the man that he was two months ago. Why the sudden change in his behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for quite some time. He lives in South Carolina; I live in Pennsylvania. He is 36 years old. I am 30. I don't know how we even got to this point because everything has been fine. For ...

Strongly believe in waiting until marriage, but tormented by the desire for more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Hi. I am Sylvester. I have a really sweet girlfriend, which I never thought she is to be so perfect in my eyes. She is reasonable, understanding and caring. She changed my life from a computer geek into a sunshine boy. I really appreciated and ...

I don't have the flirting gene! How do I ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - There is one girl I really like who's really fun-loving and excitable; but I just don't know how to do anything other than talk to her as a friend, and in kind of an uptight way too. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know where to go, or how ...

The girl I like is always with her friends and I cant just walk up to them and start talking..........Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - ..so there is this girl I like, we have not talked yet, and im not good in front of girls.......she is always with her (female)friends, and I just cant go between girls and talk to her about anything...pls help, thx...

Was he just holding out for sex? All our dates went so well but it has been 2 days and I have not heard from him....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy on an online dating site about three weeks ago. Since the first date, he has been great. He always followed up and made plans after the date for the next one, offered to pay for everything (even though I tried to contribute as much as ...

Did I drive him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - When I was in college, there is guy whom I did not noticed at first. He showed signs that he like me, but he never confess anything. One time, I saw him with a girl, and I was very jealous. One time, I was walking at our school, and he smiles me. ...

Girls that I like don't show any interest in me, but the girls I don't like always seem to want me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a student at an American college, coming from Britain. I am really new to the romantic scene, and having a few problems. There is one girl I really like, but I don't know how to ask her out, and I'm not even sure if she likes me at all, ...

Do I have to choose between my boyfriend and family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Ok, basically...I am feeling like I have to choose between my boyfriend of a year and my family. I have always been reallyyyy close to my family - my parents and my 3 siblings. My siblings know me as I am but I suppose I've always hidden a lot about ...

Even after 3 years of her leading me on I still think about her every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - i've been crushing on this girl for almost 4 years now and she has forgotten me.when we first met we flirted a lot,but then she would change on me and say that i didn't like her(meaning that she didn't want anything to do with me.she was giving me ...

We moved in, got comfortable, and I'm wondering about compatibility

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We've been living together for a couple of months. The interesting thing is that neither one of us seemed to notice just how big of a step it was...we just fit so comfortably together. Perhaps a ...

Did I screw this up by moving too fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - Well after being in a marriage for over 20 years to a men 20 years my senior, it terminated abruptly due to his stupidity, and it hurt me a lot, 10 month had passed and even though I was still vulnerable I decided to go on a blind date with a men ...

His reasons for wanting just FWB don't really make sense

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I like this guy, i have liked him since the day we met. He says he likes me so much he doesnt know what to do, then one night he asked me if i would rather date him or be friends with benifits. My heart sank, i said i wanted to date him rather then ...

My loner personality is pushing away the girl I like.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Ok, so my problem is that I think I like this girl but my loner personality is making me feel like I`m pushing her away. She goes to the same school as me but is in the grade above me. We have some classes that are the same becasue the school is ...

Past trauma is interfereing with my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend and i are having some intimacy problems. mainly because of me tho.i was raped when i was 14 yrs old and ive been very distressed and disinterested in sex lately mainly because i hav nightmares from when it happened.i cant seem to ...

I'm terrible at small-talk so how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - I am a college student who has come from the UK to America, and I just don't know what to do romantically. I am rather anhedonic, so I have difficulty just relaxing and having fun with women. I'm not good at all at social banter or small talk. ...

Am I expecting too much too early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I am 60 and retired, and have been seeing a 63 yr. old retired man for about 3 months. I feel like the only time he is available is when it fits his schedule. He has several (daily) family routines (such as cooking them dinner, nightly, baby ...

My boyfriend has stolen things from me and given them to someone else!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has stolen things from me and given them to someone else! Most of the things are things he has given to me. He does not think he has done anything wrong because he gave them to me, so he says that it was his anyway. He has given them to ...

Every time he is out with his friends I turn into a HORRIBLE control freak when he doesn't answer my text right away. How can I stop being this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we have been living together for about three months. My issue is I have been treating him horribly lately. I get angry at the smallest of things and lash out on him. Every time he is out ...

I think I prefer my room mate to my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - i moved into an apartment a few months ago. my roomate starting seeing one of the boys on campus and me and him really hit it off and have become best friends. i also have a boyfriend on campus but i think i like my best friend. i always think about ...

I think my girl is paranoid... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - i absolutely love my gf but lately she's been acting odd, she gets annoyed when i kiss her once and is always on edge thinking that the teachers and security guards at our school are waiting and watching us thinking that once we kiss or hug we'll go ...

Anal or vaginal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - What feels better for either the male or female? Anal or vaginal sex? My boyfriend and i tried anal before vaginal and now i am afraid that when we have vaginal sex it won't feel as good for him. We are conserving our vaginal virginity for after ...