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writes:I have been in a relationship for eleven years and found out last year that my boyfriend is married two years ago and was stilling with me. When I confronted him he denied it. I did not stop until he could not deny any more but he is still seeing me. Please help me to get over this man as I am going crazy and getting very sick. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 February 2009):
 Okay, the only way I can figure out how he could have gotten married without you noticing is that you are (or were) in a long distance relationship. Otherwise, you'd be hanging out with his friends too, and would have met his family and all the things that normal couples do, especially after eleven years.
So how did you two meet, and how often do/did you see each other in real life?
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reader, 48years  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 Hi. I know it hurts like hell and you can't stop thinking about him, rehashing conversations...desperate for closure...feeling loathing for yourself and for feeling like you just have to see him...
Write it all down cuz it's whirling through your head. Then write a letter to him (one he'll never see) and realize that all of this angst which drives you insane is your way of coping with an incredibly unfair situation.
Don't see him or speak to him, or all of the progress you make will be undone.
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reader, llcooljayce +, writes (18 February 2009):
 He's so not worth it. He's a scum bag. Time to move on. He's no good. He's a liar. He's a cheater. You can not trust him so why beat yourself up over it. Let him go ruin someone elses life and move on with yours. You deserve much more than what he's given you.
J
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Ok,
firstly, How could you have NOT known he was married? how did all this happen?
Secondly, you got to see that he is a bastard. married and you are now the OTHER one. doe shis wife know? If he lied of such a thing imagine about what else he has lied about?
Change is you key word now.CHANGE
Change your hairstyle, change your clothes, change your boyfreind for pete's sake! you desrve a guy who wont do such a terrible thing!
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