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*ranklydammy
writes: There is this girl am going out with (its new) and I will need your advice always, because I want to keep this relationship.We met some months ago, and since then we've been (just) friends, but I asked her out (woo her)approximately a month ago, though her first response was that she has someone she's going out with (as in she has a boy friend), I didn't put pressure on her and as times goes on she accepted my proposal.The real issue is she is still going out with the guy and she told me, she said i have to give her some time to end the relationship with the other guy (as they have been together for the past 5years). SHE KEEP TELLING ME SHE LOVES ME and that if not for the love she has for me, she won't tell me she has a boy friend, that she will just be deciving me. What do you think I can do to help her end her other relationship, she is currently having a clash with the guy, I LOVE THIS GIRL, AND I KNOW SHE LOVES ME TOO, AND I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER TO ANYONE, so please tell me what i can do to make her more closer to me (I want her madly in love with me) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): be patient. perhaps she's testing whether you really love her. if you do, you have to wait for her :)
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