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writes:She tells me she loves me. She swears she's not lying.I know some of her ex-boyfriends, they say she said the same thing to them. She has cheated on every boyfriend she has ever had. (She told me herself.) Every night I think about how she would be able to cheat on me and I wouldnt know it. She's capable enough and smart enough to get away without me noticing. I want to trust her... I really do. Im in love with her.In an attempt to trust her, I've been monitoring her actions when she doesn't know it. Without her telling me, I found out her bestfriend is a guy. They had hooked-up before. When I asked her about him she told me that all of her attraction to him is gone... in all honesty, I dont believe her. Would it be stupid of me to trust her? Worst part? Im leaving on a business trip for one month in another country this summer...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the feedback guys,
im going with my gut with this one. Im gonna trust her
and hope for the best. Nothing to lose right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): What happens if she loved all of the other guys as well? my advice, stay away from her or you'll get hurt. why bother wondering all the day long when u can guess what will happen?
ps. drinking, smoking, drugs and cheating are the 4 worst habits.. can never get rid of them .. nu-uh.
good luck!
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (17 February 2009):
 if you know you cant trust her then dont. if you know deep down inside you now you can trust her then trust her. and you know maybe she has changed but dont take my word for it. hope everything goes good for you let me know what happens. -andrew
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