New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in August, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (28), 2 (30), 3 (27), 4 (29), 5 (44), 6 (35), 7 (39), 8 (21), 9 (30), 10 (54),
11 (42), 12 (32), 13 (29), 14 (26), 15 (28), 16 (29), 17 (37), 18 (28), 19 (34), 20 (39),
21 (18), 22 (37), 23 (51), 24 (28), 25 (41), 26 (34), 27 (44), 28 (25), 29 (23), 30 (26),
31 (34),

Archived questions from: 27 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from August, 2009)

Dating: Help and advice

I've told her there's "plenty of room"... if things progress, do I get out another bed or invite her to mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I have a girl coming up to see me for a night out this weekend. We have been friends for a few years and have always had abit of chemistry, but never quite got together as we were both in relationships. Now we are both single. I said to her she can ...

If I go help my ex, there'll be no going back to my current love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with a man, living together. The problem comes in that my ex girlfriend needs to leave her current boyfriend (he's abusive and they have a child, he's even made the child cry.) And I love her, as much, if not more ...

How can I be more assertive to get a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - [MOD NOTE: Multiple questions from same poster so I have combined them] Q1. Im a 15 year old boy and im kinda nerdy and quiet and don't get out much because I get so nervous thinking of the people im going be around and if someone is going to pick...

In love with my best male friend. Should I wait or just give up on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi. Im in a bit of a situation. I am in love with a very old friend of mine. I have known him since we were at school, and we are very good friends, who can talk to each other about anything. We chat nearly every day, even tho he has a girlfriend...

He thinks I don't like him! Should I make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hey I need some quick advice because I want to know what i'm going to do! Please help I know it's long!! Okay so here's the deal I really like this guy that i've known all my life and he likes me back. A few weeks ago we kissed for the firs...

My fiance said he would leave me if I got pregnant and now I am - how do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for awhile we just recently got engaged a few months ago. We have talked about our future a lot. I have 3 kids and he has accepted them. He loves them very much and they love him. We have talked about having k...

When should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - How do you know when to give up on someone? I've been kissing this guy who shows no sign of wanting a relationship and it drives me insane thinking he could be with someone else when I'm not around! What do I do?...

Girls seem attracted to me but I don't know how to approach them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Whenever i meet a girl i am attracted to or is attracted to me i find it difficult to approach her or even ask.i hav seen several cases where girls seem attracted to me but i don't know how to approach them.i nid help on how to...

Help all female readers! We got into a fight and I forgot an anniversary...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Lets say that I was in a bad mood one night, we got in a huge fight I said some awful things, and may have forgotten an anniversary. Now, apologizing does nothing. What can I do to show her I really do love her, and didnt mean to f this up so bad...

I've started feeling really bored, and like a really boring person! Has anyone else felt this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about seven months now. In the past two years, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions. I previously was dating a really bad person that was nothing short of a sociopath, my parents divorced each other ...

Too clingy! How do I control it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i am almost 4 months pregnant, and the baby's father and i are currently broken up. we are trying really hard to work things out because we've both come from broken homes, and we feel a child deserves both parents. plus, we are still so in love. ...

He's STILL unemployed! Is he just feeding me empty promises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been together close to a year and a half now. he has been unemployed for a loooooooong time. i love him so much but my patience is starting to wear thin. he is not very motivated to find a job. he is living with family ...

He always has to be the one to make all the moves

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Okay I was dating a man for a little while and it was great! He was kind handsome attentive and basically just awesome. Unfortunately we had a misunderstanding which first made me pull away and then my distance made him pull away. I also told him ...

Did he fancy me? We are not as close anymore and I don't feel I can be myself around him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - there is this guy that i have been friends with since i started high school...we were so close for about 3 or 4 years but then i felt he started dropping hints that he liked me very suttle hints..his friends used kinda tease us when we were laughing ...

I have been fooling around with a guy and now I cant seem to get an erection when I'm with a girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Im a 23 year old guy, and i have a couple of problems that i think are interlinked. I lost my virginity pretty late, i was 18, with my girlfriend at the time. We had sex a few times and then broke up after a month or two. After that i started ...

How should I feel about my girlfriend constantly talking to her ex-husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I have been with this woman for 6 1/2 mths. we seem to get along about everything. she moved to my city to get away from her ex and start a new life. when we found each other we instantly clicked.we have been living together for a while ...

How do I get rid of these feelings that I want to be with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I am not cheating, nor do I plan on cheating on my boyfriend, but I have been with women before and he knows it. I've been feeling lately that I want to be with a woman, and I really want to tell my boyfriend without him wanting to join in (again). ...

Really think my ex may be the one: how should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I dated a man for five months and things were going great. He had a physical problem that got in the way of having sex and we broke up due to that. He told me it was due to chemistry, but I tend to differ. We have been broken up for three months ...

Feel like I'm second-best: how do I convince him that I'm the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Let me just get to the point. There's this guy that I have been in and out of a relationship with for years. He says he loves me, and I will always have a place in his heart. He also says that he would never let me go no matter what obstacles may ...

Do you think it's a waste of time for me to hope and wait on this girl? I really hope not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - So... I'm a very active person, and have been looking for a woman who can keep up with me and that has similar interests as me. Well, during one of the sand volleyball leagues I played in this summer, I met a girl who was cute, and also very co...

Everything is going great with this guy, but I want to see him more often. Am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (?) - I have a new guy I have been dating for about two months. Everything is going great. I Love him so much and he says he does too. He treats me well and does all the things a woman would love from his man. The only problem is I miss him more and want ...

Why am I so attached to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - We started dating about 8 months ago and it was the most amazing relationship i had ever been in. we did everything together, we were both very deeply in love. But things got a little rough over the summer considering we are both 16 neither of us ...

I cannot carry on like this: I've been in love with my friend for years and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend we have been seeing each other behind his back for the last two years "I know this is wrong" but it seems impossible to break off from it, its been on and off so many times she said she wants ...

How can I stop feeling so nervous when I first meet my Internet date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - hi all, id like to ask for advice on an internet date, blind date if you like. weve been talking for a month and a half, internet and phone calls. now were going to be meeting next week. il give you some background on the situation. We have both...

Is this man playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Ok, here it is, I will just shoot from the hip here and maybe get a bit more insight into my wondering mind. I met a guy about 6 weeks ago. had coffee and talked. nice man and he asked to meet again. during the time before we met there was te...

Which guy should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i'm 19 years old and only had one boyfriend. sounds stupid but i only want a b.f that i can see a long term future with not no fun or short term etc.two guys liek me Guy A knowin him nearly for a month i;ve fancied him from word go hes 23 and ha...

How do I approach the guy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Please help! There's this guy that I've seen around and I think he's really good looking but I don't know how to approach him. When I do see him, he appears to be in a world of his own; either daydreaming or listening to music, so there never seems ...

Why would he bring his gay friend along on dates, is he gay himself, or is there something else? help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi I started seeing this guy from the Middle East and really enjoyed him . The thing was he was always with his friend. His friend is married and 'bi' and would show up on our dates and call if he wasn't there! I mean it felt like his friend was his ...

Do you think caring about me as an individual will come in time? Or am I just kidding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I'm well aware there are different levels of love. Lust, being in love and then over time that deep caring and shared bond.the man I'm seeing says he loves me. I genuinely feel like he does. When I'm with him he says all the right things and it ...

I'm confused - is this guy over me or is there a chance he never really got over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i've liked this guy for 2 years. and now i'm just confused.2 years ago we liked each other i went to a party hooked up wit some guy and the guy i've liked never spoke to me again and i understood i guess.then year ago i see him he doesnt say hi to ...

How do you know if a guy just wants you for sex or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Are there any signs that suggest whether a guy wants you for sex or something more? It's a month before I can see him to talk about it face to face (I'd rather not ask by email or on the phone) but I need an idea of where we could be heading before ...

He's proposed before, why not to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs already we have a child together and everything. i have proposed to him before but he doesn't want to get married because he feels that were moving too fast. he has proposed to two other women who have ...

Does he really want to get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend keeps telling me he wants to get back together but things need to change first...such as my jealosy issues, the fact that I don't accept some of his friends..and that I annoy him some times He says he wants us to be together but to ...

I really like my friend but I am worried about losing his friendship if we ever broke up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i have a guy friend that i really like. i've known him for a while and he's been with me through the ups downs and arounds. i don't know what to do really. i don't want to lose our friendship if we have a bad break up but i dont want to pass up this ...

Do you think I could be bisexual because of my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - recently when i watched the trya banks show[lesbians it was about on this episode] i have been wondering to myself are you a lesbian!but to me i aint cuz i have a boy friend and stuff! so now im wondering if im a bisexual becuz when i was small...

I fancy him, but am worried about him thinking I am easy, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I had a date with a guy and we didn’t kiss at the end of the date. He then went away for 4 weeks and we were in contact daily and would talk on the phone for hours. He came back recently and we had dinner at his place. He kissed me first and we then ...

I don't like the fact that he has slept with about 40 women. But I'm falling for him. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - So i have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He tells me he really likes me and wants us to be together but we are taking things slow. We get along great and he has shared things about his childhood and life with me that he has never shared ...

How do I tell my girlfriend how I feel and get the spark back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 6 months now and I love her to death, but we are exact opposites. I'm almost 6' tall and shes about 5' 2" maybe, I'm around 250 LBS and shes less than 100 LBS. I'm 16, shes 14. I listen to country, ...

Which guy should I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hey guys I hope you can help me... This problem has been bugging me for a while now but I feel that I really need to sort it out lol Well basically I am trying to choose between two guys. I have recently turned 17 and they are both 17 as well...

Was the waitress hitting on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I was at a waterfront restaurant with my friend and our waitress gave us food and all and there was another hot girl painting kids faces for some reason idk and the waitress asked while looking at me if we would like to get our faces painted I said ...

Should I step in with my opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I started seeing my best friend whom I fell in love with though it never worked out the way we would have liked we are still friends but its not the same there is a point to me telling you this. . . Anyway that's not my question. . . she told me ...

I'm 38, she's 19 and she wants a relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I am 38 years old and have recently been getting quite close with a very very beautiful 19 year old work colleague ( I am not her boss ).She is very mature, and works part time as a fashion model. She has told me she wants a relationship. We haven't ...

Should I continue to try and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Okay, it's a long story but i need help with this. I thought everything was fine in our relationship, it was pretty much out of this world to me and i thought he felt the same. He told me everyday how much he loved me and that he didnt want to ...

I love her, but she's a bit younger, more than a bit.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I've known this gal for some time, she's a cutie pie, very lovable and all, and I'm sure I have feelings, I think she has for me, she shows it, but my problem is, I'm very worries about age difference, there's like 13 and a half years of ...