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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What can I do to get boys to like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - How can I get boys to like me when im ugly? I need help... i feel really ugly all the time. Everyone around me is so much prettier. I get made fun of because of my short hair. I am 15 and a boy has never shown any interest in me, plus I am flat ...

I feel needy. I don't want to have to rely on someone else to make me happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I can't seem to know why, but I feel really insecure in my relationship. My past with boyfriends hasn't really done well for me as they have all ended pretty badly. I'm usually the one ending it because of the way I've been treated. It really sucks ...

Should I see what happens with the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hello, i wonder if u can help me!! i have been speeking to this Turkish man for about 1 year now, we have got really close , talked everyday spooken on phone, msn, etc!. hes a really nice man with a wonderful personality, and also h...

Help me, decide between two people...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I have been really lonely. So I find myself going back to an ex to get over the loneliness. I have been dating him for about three months so far. But I have known him for 9 years. We dated a while back, got married, then divorced. We were officially ...

What should I do about the guy I met on holiday? He lives far but I want to make this work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - So here it goes. I'm just back from a two week holiday in which i wanted to get away from a breakup back home. I couldn't wait to go. When i was on holidays i met this boy just under a year younger than me, we clicked straight away and there ...

Where are the best places to to meet older women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 August 2009 (?) - This is partially a relationship issue and partially a life issues/opinion on life issues question. Why does society like to poke fun at men who date older women (even slightly older than them, not huge age gaps)? If a man dates a much younger ...

Should I wait for him to call, or should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy on Friday night and he seemed to really like me. We talked a bit and he asked me what my plans were on Saturday to which I responded I was working. And then what I was doing on Sunday and if i could hang out during the week. He asked ...

Would it be proper to ask this Turkish man out for coffee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I live in the us and I've met a really nice shy Turkish man ...I have to visit the store he works at everyday. He is very nice and polite is proper in the eyes of a guy from Turkey to ask him out for coffee....

He says no one compares to me, then why does he keeps leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - If a man loves you and wants to be with u .and they r saying that u make them a bettter person. And he has never felt this way b4.hes lucky. I only no the true him. Why would he keep leaving me.then begging me back wks and months later saying how ...

I'm worried that my boyfriend has slept with other women behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - hey there am going to meet my boyfriend after a quite time but am too worried he might have slept with other women behind my back , i am planing to go for an hiv test before something more intimate between us.. am afraid we might have unprotected ...

Should I give this boy up now or carry on living in a pretend world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Well in April i was with my ex.. then my boyfriend and his friend from wales came down with is about two hours away from where we live. When he went home i added him on bebo and we got talking and then when me and my bf broke up we got quite close ...

My new boyfriend has stopped turning me on and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I have new boyfriend who is amazing. He's really cute to look at but for some reason he has just stopped turning me on and I dont know why. He tells me all the time he thinks Im sexy and always wants to make love but I just dont want to even though ...

She said she wasn't feeling it, what did she mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a 27 year old guy. And I was out on the town last weekend, And this guy that I know had her sister and her mates out with us. I got the feeling one of her mates was eyeing me up some of the night. And when we were at the bar my mates si...

Neediness in relationships... I can't have it happen next time! How can I calm down while still showing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend around 2 months ago and I'd say I've done a pretty good job about getting over her completely. I even get happy when I see her photos on Facebook, etc. with her new girlfriend because they suit each o...

We're dating, but he doesn't demonstrate much affection! Does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - i've been seeing a man for 2 months, he's attractive, never married, no kids, but doesnt express how he feels about me. i'm not expecting love or anything as he's 43 and i'm 42 and taking things slow, as we are both getting over ex's. but he doesnt ...

I like him as more than just a friend, but now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I am confused about my guy-friend. I really like him as more than a friend, and for a while, thought he liked me too. We are pretty tight, we text every day, we talk on the phone for hours (i "make him feel like a girl ;)" for talking to me for 3-4 ...

They chase me and then when they got me they drop me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I've noticed the same pattern repeating itself with me and guys. It's happened more times than I can count so I think there's something I must be doing to cause it, because not all men can be like this! They'll chase me, obsessively, for whatever ...

He said I was acting like a girlfriend but I wasn't trying to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Ok ppl...Im having a little boy trouble.. I'm at a point in my life where i want to have a boyfriend and be "in love"..Thats not exactly working out as i planned.. I was beginning to talk with this one guy..and we had a lot in common..our birthdays ...

Did he really like me or just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have just started hanging out with a guy and there is real chemistry between us. The other night tho he was teasing me that one of our friends said I liked him and I got defensive. He basically made me feel like a stalker coz he doesn...

He said he might date me if he broke up with his girlfriend. What do I do with my feeling for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I dated my cousin who is 4 years older than me for a while until he broke up with me for another girl. Then I dated his friend. I just started talking again to a different one of his friends and I realized I like him. I said as much to him and he ...

Nervous of what boys will think of me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - i want to meet other guys and be flirtty but im really scared ill be a slut or theyll think that im looking for a relationship when im looking for just fun.i really am nervous guys will reject me aswell i know im preatty but I don't think guys will ...

How do I tell my FWB about the girl I want to marry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I am seeing someone on a regular basis and we have discussed marriage already. We have been seeing each other for about 3 months now. The problem is that before this I was seeing someone on again and off again for 2 years. We were the classic ...

He's not interested! How do I tell her so I can ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My friend's boyfriend broke up with her the other night. He made it pretty clear her wasn't into dating her, yet she seems to be in denial. I'm not saying she's acting like an idiot, but she believes she will get him back,but I don't know how to ...

It's early, but I want to tell him how I'm feeling without freaking him out..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - How much do you tell a guy about how you're feeling (in the early stages of going out) to let him know you're interested but avoid freaking him out? I'm fairly new to dating again after a long relationship (and over a year of being single after that ...

I don't want him to think i''m no in to him, but I don't want to be clingy.. where's the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I’m just so confused at the moment but I don't know if I'm just being paranoid. I met a guy online recently and about two weeks ago we met up. Things went really well and he asked me out on a second date. So far we’ve been on our third and fourth ...

I'm lesbian and she's straight, but could she still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I told my friend I was lesbian and she is straight.. she knows i'm an emotional person and everything.. and she's always like flirting with me.. and she told me" I thought about you boo"... and like two weeks ago i told her i had a boyfriend and she ...

I like my friend's ex but I don't want to cause any problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, who I secretly liked. Now I would never want to hurt her by trying to take him from her! Don't get me wrong, I'm not like that! But I'm not that sure they'll get back together. Something about being ...

I've dated, inpregnated, in love with, and proposing marriage to a possible half sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - hi. i'm 23, male, and looking for some advice for a situation that could be really great, or really awkward. i was adopted and raised an only child. i had a vague recollection of my birth mother having another child before me, by a different bio ...

Was this ment to be or am I on rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I need help deciding if I am on the rebound.. so here is the situation. I was in a relationship for 3 years during which my partner and I were not a good match. He physically and verbally abused me, but the worst part was the fact that he tri...