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Archived questions from: 14 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Yes baby! No baby! Yes baby, NO! Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - hi so im in a pretty messed up situation, here is the story...im 19 years old my boyfriend is 30. we have only been together several months. he is in a lot of debt and i just graduated from school. i am pregnant i found out the end of may,i told him ...

My long-distance girlfriend is sending love messages to other guys.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - am in a long dist relationship for a year n half.i love this girl and recently we had sex after waitin for a year. after she slept i went through her cellphone and i saw some luv text she has sent to some guys.she didnt deny but she didnt ...

Are guys our there who like androgymous tomboy girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I am not straight. I like women more but men sometimes too. I feel most comfortable being androgynous - shortish hair, confident manner, and a bit tomboyish: I like to open doors for my dates and generally naturally gravitate away from the feminine ...

Would it be bad to wait a year before I get back together with me ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Me and my bf broke up about 2 weeks ago. We have had contact since then. He is going to ucsd in about a month and im staying home (about 2 hrs away) to finish my last year of high school. He told me how he thinks that we are a great match for one ...

My boyrfriend never seems intersted and I'm getting bored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Hi guys, right I really need ur help, but I would appreciate it if u wud answer this as if u were me so put urselves in my shoes. Ok basically its about my bf of 3 months, I fancied the pants of him from the moment I saw him then eventually we got t...

Sometimes he stares at me so much I want him to stop!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - i recently met a really cute guy,but i'm not sure if he really likes me.when he first saw me he kept staring at me like mad,showed me to his friend and tried in differnt ways to stay as close as possible to me.a few days later he started a ...

Used just for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - why are relationships so hard to maintain? how can you tell when a guy is only using you for sex? can a boy be to good to be true? -help? xxxx...

I want the REAL deal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend (6 months dating) is talking about us moving out together in the near future. Us buying a home is a huge deal and commitment!! All this talk gets me ancy. But what about a ring on this finger?? I haven't told him yet, but I'm not ...

Help!!! I'm worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me along time ago with the guy she lost her virginity. No sex, they just kissed then she walked away. The same thing happened at the beginning of our relationship. She was quite the party animal and used to drink a lot. We ...

I don't get why he's like this, anyone able to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now, I'm 26, he's 29. We've been engaged for 2 years now. In the last few weeks he's become very interested in signing us up as members of AARP, lost interest in sex and spends all his time on the Inte...

Is it ok to go out with someone you really like even though they might not be "the one"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not particularly worried about that...but I'm just a little confused at the moment. I've always thought that people should go out to build a steady and loving relationship rat...

We want to be together but she's got a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - hi my relations with girls is a mess i like this girl but i think she just wants to be freinds and i kinda like this other girl who i pulled last saturday but has a boyfreind whos my best freind we both dont want to hurt hit but we cant stay away ...

Kissing with the tongue and can't get it right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - hello, i am a 15 year old girl. ive had a few boyfriends andwe do kiss (but they only stick their tounge in my mouth). recently(yesterday) i had a new boyfriend and i really want to stick my tounge into his mouth and "snog" but my tounge just wont ...

Does looking at gay porn me I'm bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - I'm 23, and was in a relationship with a girl for 3 months until I broke up with her of my own volition 4 weeks ago. In the past few weeks I've been looking at gay porn (like Mr. Gay UK, Gay Times) and then I feel dirty afterwards, as I'm norma...

How do I stop being so shy around the guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - i met a guy and i really like him but i tend to be shy around people i like and it stops me from being myself and want to be myself because i beleive its workin against me and i dont to loose him what do i do?...

My boyfriend has gone travelling for a year, I'm not sure if I want to wait around that long for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - im 21 years old and my boyfriend has chosen to take a gap year in australia. he has been gone for 7 weeks and im missin him so much but wondering if it is worth it? he had already booked to go away before we got together so everytime i try and talk ...

How do I show him I want to do stuff with him when we are alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I dont know if i like or not.. Its so frustrating.. Like he always wants to do stuff in public like when I hug him he always lifts up my shirt and grabs my ass and I just laugh and move his hand. But when we're alone in his ...

I've been told I am a little feminine, do women find this attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - Hey, does girls find a guy who behave little like a woman attractive? Well its just that some of my girl friends usually drop a joking statement that i behave like a lady. But not the way i walk cos i walk like guy. But they say its the way i laugh,...

Any advice for teen relationship, and a possible breakup at hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Before you begin to read, I must warn you the following might sound childish, and I may even sound stupid. I just ask you put that aside and just try and help my regardless. I'm fourteen, and almost four months ago, I started dating this boy. It'...

This guy is giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I swear the guy I've been seeing for the past few months is giving me mixed signals! He acts like no guy I've ever known before. Some of the time, I'd think from the way he acted, he was only with me for sex...only we haven't actually had sex yet. ...

What are some activities we could do in bed for the weekend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a great guy. he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away. Is he inviting me to staying in bed all weekend? what are some activities we could do in bed for weekend? ...

Would we be good together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - theres this guy named Zack :) he and i have known each other for about 3 or 4 years and we're pretty good friends. hes always been there for me. Hes a PK so if i need help he'll give me bible verses and help me. and I used to call him brother ...

We arrange to meet, and she always cancels. How can I make this date happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - thanks for reading! I have meet this really amazing Girl on the internet and she seems to be very shy.We have had some great conversations on the phone for hours at a time and when we talk its natural and nothing is forced and there isnt any odd ...

How do you juggle dating and work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I got out of a 4 year relationship just under a year ago and now that I'm dating again, I'm wondering how people cope with 1) the uncertainty of it all, getting to know different guys at the same time and not knowing if there could be a future with ...

Will he think I'm not interested if I can't talk to him on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - I started talking to a great guy online, flirting and joking around, then after a while, we moved on to texting each other. Now he wants to call me and I keep making excuses not to because I'm worried it won't go well. My ex, who I broke up with at ...

Please help walk me through my next steps!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - Hi, ive just turned 18 and im in abit of a difficult situation. Im not the most confident guy in the world, i suppose when it comes to my friends though im pretty confident and just generally friendly. Thing theres 4 of us who are the best of ...