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Dating: Help and advice

I wanted his friend, but he won me over. Did I make the wrong decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I have a problem Let me start by saying me and my boyfriend have been together for 6months now and before we began dating I had sex with his bestfriend I feel bad sometimes but others im like Its not like I planned this. At first I knew My boyfri...

I can't stop thinking about how he once left me for another woman. Is it going to work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. He has broken up with me a few times then comes right back to me apologizing and claiming that he didn't know what he was thinking. Our last break up was because he left me for anot...

There's just too many guys to choose from. I don't want to hurt any of them.

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18 August 2009 (F) - Im alittle confused. I like to many guys. I like this boy that i just met a month ago. we talk on the phone all the time and we just "clicked" but he is also my brothers best friend and i am afarid of messing up their friendship so we are keeping ...

Dating! How do I get this guy interested in me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - alright... so afew months ago i met my "dream guy" (like seriously, the guy who i've been hoping to find for like ever) and of course i had sex with him on the 3rd date. I know ur supposed to hold out, but i didn't. since then we went out afew more ...

Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - I'm kinda iffy about this. I've know this girl for like 2 years...I don't really know if I like her, but I want to move on and get over this other girl. She's so damn cute, artistic and athletic just like me. She's the spoiled type, but that's...

We're always arguing, what do I do?

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18 August 2009 (F) - I've been n dis relationship for 2yrs and we hve a 6 month old bby now. we don't c eye to eye on thngs, hve 2 many diff opinions, don't share da same ideas or thoughts. our outlook on almost EVERYTHNG is not the same! WE R JUS WAAAAAAAY 2 DIFF so ...

Am I scared of commitment or just not old enough for something serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I'm a fifteen year old girl, going into year 11 at high school. Most of my friends are in a 'serious relationship' or have been in one. I've had guys interested in me before, but I've never been compelled to start a proper relationship with any of ...

Should I ask her out even though she still loves another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - ive been liking this girl for a couple of months and when i starting like her she wasnt single but now she is and she sed she like likes me a little but still loves another boy what should i do should i ask her out or any thing what i should do ?...

My mother dissapproves because I'm 20 and want to date someone who's 46. Is this really such a bad thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - So, I'm a 20 year old lesbian. I just recently met a 46 year old woman and we get along great. Most girls my age don't work, don't want to attend college and believe in anything but lies. We share what seems like a million a 10 things in common, we ...

Worried Ex is getting the wrong impression!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me in July and at first I tried so hard to get him back and to make things work. Then I read a lot of advice that told me to cut contact with him and get out of his life so he could miss me and that way I would stand a ...

I really need to know what he's thinking..and need advice from guys!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I REALLY need advice!! My boyfriend and I finished in June and I was very upset. However for about a month afterwards we were still talking every day, meeting up and generally trying to fix things. He believed that the break up was down to me not ...

Taking the pill, but should I still ask him to wear a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm in a bit of muddle at the moment and not sure what to do. Basically I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I genuinely love him and feel comfortable in the relationship in every way. However, since going on the contraceptive pill, I'...

Feeling guilty about dating the ex of an acquaintance. Am I doing anything wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi. I've recently become involved with a guy who has broken up with his gf of 2.5 years, I really like him and he seems really into me but there is a slight problem. His ex-gf is an acquaintance of mine, not a friend but a good friend of a friend o...

Would she accept being my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - Theres this girl I like but on facebook it says she single and only looking for 'random play'. But I want to ask her out to be my gf! Does this mean she will say no?...

I'm 19: is someone 4 years younger too young for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - ok i like this guy. he is four years younger than me but he is very mature and he looks mature as well.. i know that if i were to date him many people would start judging and i'm really afraid of what they might say....

He doesn't take time out of his day to text or call me, is he interested in me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Ok So I have been seeing this guy for a month and a few weeks, I met him down the shore and he is a fun and outgoing person like myself. He has taken me on a few dates and now I been staying over his house… we recently had sex after the month of ...

How do you know if a guy is using you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hey, How do you know if a guy is using you? Like i know this really hot guy, hes very confident, hes the lead singer in a local band. Hes always going around introducing me as his girlfriend! I he trying to tell me something?? I know h...

Choosing between 2 men - if I could roll them together then that would be the perfect man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Hi I am in love with 2 guys and both have asked me to marry them. How on earth do I choose? I was dating guy 1 but we broke up and I started dating guy 2. I have only dated guy 2 for 4 months where as I dated guy 1 for 1 1/2 years. The break...

Since we hugged things have become awkward between us!

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18 August 2009 (F) - ok theres this guy i like and we met up the other day and this is going to sound really stupid but we hugged and i hugged him for about 10 minutes and now things have started to get really awkward but he normally hugs me loads anyway so i thought it ...

We're arguing and not seeing each other as much

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18 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3/4 years now and we both love each other very much. but recently we have been arguing about not seeing each other as much as id like to see him more than once a week. he works nights as a cleaner ...

My mom is trying to guilt me into breaking up with my boyfriend- help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 7 months. We have known each other for four years. We get along well, although we have our ups and downs- as most everyone does. But we have one huge problem with our relationship- my mom. She gets ...

He's intelligent but judgemental, and resents my independent thinking

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together more than two years. He is willing to do almost anything for me, pick up bits of shopping, help me out if I'm not feeling well, looks after my cat when I'm on vacation, etc. I try to assist him in many ways...

How would a girl know when a guy really likes her or just has a fleeting crush on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - We don't know each other and during some college events over the vacation were thrown together. And he looks at me quite abit. When he thinks i'm unaware, when he leaves a place i'm at, he would look at me for some time. Upclose eye contact, he ...

He said he doesn't feel the same, but he's still talking about getting engaged

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i started dating last june. we became very close very fast, yet we took things slow at first. after 2 months we both said we loved each other. he applied for school 2 hours away, and before he left, he got me a ring to let me know ...

He keeps telling me he doesn't have a girlfriend but I KNOW he does!

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18 August 2009 (F) - Ok well about 3 months ago i started a new job in an office. I met loads of great new people and i loved it. i still love it. i met this one guy in particular, we'll call him robert. I didn't notice him at first, he's not particularly ama...

I have never actually kissed anybody, but I told her I had! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - Hi there heres my situation: i really like this girl and we met through a mate and we have seen each other and like gone to the cinema and that like i think its about 5 times now and we are always texting each other and the other day she said she...

Torn between family and fiancee...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - Dear Aunties, Lately I have been an emotional wreck. I am torn between being closer to my family and starting a family with my soon to be husband. Right now I am 22 and he is 28. We met 3 years ago, at that time I just moved from California and n...

Why didn't he kiss me then?

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18 August 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been hanging out a lot and we are always flirting with each other. I am really attracted to him and I think he likes me too but I'm not sure, I know he is a really nice guy and a gentleman. Don't get me wrong, he isn't shy or ...