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Archived questions from: 22 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

23 year old son wants to meet with a girl he met online. Is it safe?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Our 23 year old son lives with us, and he's in university doing a 4-year business course - it got delayed for financial reasons. He's doing well academically. However, he told us yesterday he wants to meet this girl he met online - he got talk...

I'm not as talkative and social as he wants me to be. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - okay, so me and my bf have been dating for now almost 4 months and he's a really social person. Flirts and talks with whomever. Im not. I honestly could care less about talking to people. I would much rather just sit there and read or something. It ...

Voicemail from my partner's ex has made me paranoid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - my partner has started talking to his ex again and I'm getting paranoid but he doesn't know I know. I found out the other day when I was home and he had left his phone at home. It started ringing and it was his ex. It then beeped saying she had l...

Was he interested, and I shot him down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Was he interested and I shot him down? I was taking private lessons at a school and I started to become attracted to my teacher (were both adults). I thought maybe he was too, but was not sure. I never knew if he was being nice because he was my t...

Why do you think he gets so nervous around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Hi, was just hoping you could give me some insight There's a guy who i really like, and have done for about a year now. For months I have noticed that he is very nervous around me and i'm wondering why? Here's a little background for you; He fo...

His ex is still in the picture. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - So I was seeing this guy in the beginning of the summer and things ended after two months because "the ex came back into the picture and he had to "figure things out." He confessed this to me out of the blue. I was so shocked I didn't say anything ...

I have had enough! Do you think I should stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I have had enough! do you think i should stay? I met my current boyfriend through friends in my first year of Uni. We became good friends and started dating after 2 years later. We have now been together 3 years. The main problems are: 1. He ...

Just being friendly? Or does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Right. So. Here's the deal. There's a guy I know from school, the same age as me. Let's call him X. We hang in different groups completely, let's say he would be in the popular crowd and I'd be in the 'geek' crowd if you like. Until a couple of ...

Boyfriend's ex stalks me but I'm scared to tell him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a bizarre problem and was wondering if anyone could give me some advice about how to deal with it. My boyfriend was with his ex girlfriend for 2 years and i know they meant loads to each other. they had a pretty rocky rel...

We're apparently good friends, so is there a reason why we hardly talk to each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I'm confused...erm if you read this your a saint! And if u even attempt to try and think about it and reply to me....well your officially the best! You see, I'm very confused about one of my friends...he's male, we went to college together but we ...

My parents will reject him for ethnic reasons. How do I make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - hello everyone. I'm having a huge problem. Me and my friend have been talking for a while and we really like each other, we recently began dating and it will be a month soon. He treats me exactly how I deserve. So caring, and nice, just really m...

Do I quit him or confront him? Met online, seemed sincere, lied about his job.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (?) - After an exhausting break-up with my ex, I met this wonderful guy online. He seems like a really nice guy. Our conversation was always decent. We talk about our professions, our jobs, our families, our dreams in life, our likes and dislikes. We even ...

Other than age and long distance, why do you think she won't go out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - OP asked two questions and they have been combined to save room for other OPs on this page. Question 1: Here's the story. I'm 17 an my last year of high school and have a crush on one of my friends from camp (19) who is going into second year at...

Am I in way over my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - HELPHELPHELP!!! ILL TELL YOU THE STORY! AND HOPEFULLY YOULL BE ABLE TO HELP ME okay so me and this guy ..#1.. were going out for three months, but he was to nervous to kiss me or anything, and he was 16! so i broke up with him, because i wanted...

Should girl pursue guy or should guy pursue girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I need to know if I have pursued this guy too much or if I'm ok. I want to be a bit of a challenge for this guy, I want HIM to pursue me but I'm not sure how this whole pursuing thing works. He was the first to ask for my number, first to...

I've been out of the dating scene for a bit so I'm not sure how to contact him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy travelling, nothing happened but I like him from start, we hung out together for a bit and then hooked up there last weekend, I really like him but am not sure how he feels. I want to get in contact with him either by text message or ...

I don't know how to ask him about seeing other people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I've been on 3 dates with a fantastic guy..! but how can i bring up the topic of seeing other people..? Its not something i want to do, and want to know if he is in the same level without sounding like im coming on to strong..! Is it to soon to have ...

My ex has moved on and I am not happy for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - My ex has broke up with me 3 weeks ago, we were together for extactly 2 years, i m in a very bad condition now, i m thinking about her every single second, i want to forget her completely but cannot at the end, she has already someone, n she said ...

I like my ex and another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Okay so i'm in a bad situation. My boyfriend and i broke up almost two weeks ago because he told me he lost feelings for me. We had sex, so i'm still sort of clung to him. Let's name him Jim. There's another guy who is so sweet, he's absolutely...

Playing games? Or likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I kissed this guy a year and a half ago but the following night he said that he was drunk that night. I met him a few times since but nothing ever happened and we just talked. I bumped into him in a bar last weekend and he apologised for what ...

Should I tell him I read what he and his ex were talking about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I went on vacation last week, and we met up with his ex-girlfriend and her boyfriend for drinks. My boyfriend dated this girl for about 2 years and he stopped dating her about 4 years ago. She emailed him the other day and he left ...

My boyfriend has alot of baggage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Hello people, i need some advice on my situation.i have been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year he's a really nice guy we both have children, i have twins from a previous relationship and he has 5 kids by 4 different women. there's no ...

How much does love matter in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - How much does love matter in a relationship? Can you be happy with someone who gives you everything you could want but you are not in love with them. By that I mean, a family, a home, money, a great social life and their love. Long term is t...

Should I tell her how I feel through an email?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - In my senior year of highschool I had strong feelings for a teacher I had.I had her my sphomore year too,but I was just her TA my senior year. I'm in love with her.yes it's not a crush.i would always visit her during passing period we would always ...

We've been sharing at each other but what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - okay.. i started highschool the 17th im a freshman and ihad my locker moved 2 times, first time the locker didnt work, second they gave me a locker someone already had, so they gave me a new locker all the way on the other side, before my locker was ...

Should I tell him the way I feel or let him be with this other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I need help!! Basically the story goes me and my ex boyfriend met each other and talked the whole night at our friend’s 21st birthday party. Then about 3 months later we got together it was fab at first we were smitten with each other, but then ...

Do all male djs cheat on their girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - sounds weird.i've Just met a guy hes 19same as me of the net.. but hes a dj and well known in his area cuz he's really successful for his age.we have unlimted clals to eachother he spends most his spare time talking to me after our first nigh...

I really want to be with him but is he just messing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - PLEASE HELP! ok see i have a best friend who has a boyfriend called sam, and sam set me up with his best mate kabir (yes his mums indian but hes british, but he follows the muslim faith which can intefere with our "relationshp" becuase his parents ...

Should I text him to see if he wants to meet anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - yesterday i got asked out by a really cute guy,who is pretty shy and polite.i gave him my messenger ID,my phone number(he asked for them) and he gave me his phone number as well.last night he texted me and told me he's happy we got closer to each ...

Why did he take the condoms with him? How should I handle this issue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - hi. I would like some advise. I have asked my friends but i feel that the more advise i get the better i can handle the situation. I met this guy, rather oddly in the street, about two months ago. ( we live about 200 miles from each other) We ...

I'm torn between these two girls...I don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - Ok well a few days ago i posted a question about my ex and how i was falling in love with her again. Heres a link to that qestion which you may have to read to understand this one. ...

After dating him again for the second time, I slept with him. Now a few days later, he hasn't contacted me! Was I used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - What does he want? Recently i met a gut out at a club and we were dancing a bit and kissed. I saw him out a few weeks later and he asked me for my number and we started going on little dates, like to the movies and stuff and we would kiss but that...

How can I tell him I'm interested, in a subtle way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - There is this great guy that I really like a lot and I don't know how he feels about me. I'm 38, never been married and my last serious relationship left me heart broken and lacking confidence. What can I do to subtly let him know I'm interested? I ...

My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me because he feels like he is missing something. It's taking it's toll on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - so me and my boyfriend have been together sence highschool and lately evry now and then he gets to thinking that hes missing something becuse hes been with the same person for so long. and that he will never get to experance the college life. he ...

I like a guy with the same same as my brother and it's really bothering me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I'm madly in love with a guy right now (but he isn't my boyfriend; I haven't told him I love him yet), but he has the same first name as my brother! Whenever I try to think about the guy I love, out of nowhere a thought of my brother pops into my ...

What can I do to get girls to really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - How do i get girls to like me? i need some tips and tricks. im 16 year old and alot of the time get on with girls but when i ask them to go out or meet up or do they like me more than a friend they say no they just want to be friends...Any advice?...

My ex is spreading rumors about me. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

22 August 2009 (M) - Okay there is a lot of little things I could say about this but I think I can keep it very brief. My ex gf is spreading rumors about me. I was 100% loyal to her although she was not to me. She is now with a guy who I know is not loyal to her. ...