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Dating: Help and advice

Is it wrong to want a long engagement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Is it wrong to want to have a long engagement? I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2.5 years and yesterday I proposed. This is something that she's wanted for a very long time and its something that I really wanted to do when I did. I want ...

Romantic love or glorified crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Dear All, I have a problem in that I simply do not know whether I have romantic love for a particular lady or whether it is just a glorified "adult crush". I feel "romantically fond" of her and, to be honest, I am starting to feel slightl...

I can't get girls to go on dates with me... what's the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - i hit it off when i meet any girl. i mean the initial impression that i leave on the girl is favourable. but i start to have doubts when the girl starts responding and start withdrawing. so, i cant get them to go on a date with me. this is ...

What's going on with this girl? She keeps letting me down at the last minute!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - I recently pursued a relationship with a girl I met in a college class. I initially requested to go to a movie and she replied that she was busy. A day after I asked, she initiated two conversations on facebook that lasted around an hour each. I ...

After every few dates the guy starts to ignore me! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I'm a 20 year old female nad my problem is probably common but would like your opinions please. . . Ive never had a relationship which lasted more than 3 months and to be honest it was never really good, I'm a pretty decent looking girl wit...

Update: We spent the whole day together, is this a good sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Hi i posted this question the other day and got lots of fantastic answers. since then we took the car to the garage yesterday and spent 14 hours driving to different places and got dinner together. whats everyones thought on this is it a good sig...

Does he just want sex or does he want to see how things might develop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I am not sure what to think, I have fancied this guy from work for a while, on a recent night out he asked me when we were going to hook up because he knew I fancied him and I said well that depends when you want to go out, he looked and smiled and ...

Is it wrong to have a relationship with someone when you don't feel the same about them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - is it wrong to go out with a guy who loves you but you just like him? when you might also still have feelings for your teacher? xxx...

Should I wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - hi all ..... got a question for you or rather in need of help .. here it goes... I met a guy recently in a club abroad who used to be my childhood sweet heart at school i havnt seen him in ages... when i saw him i was gob smacked still scho...

Why cant I get a boyfriend?

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1 August 2009 (F) - hey :) i really want a boyfrind to have that first kiss i mean why dont any boys like me ? whats the problem with me ? peaple say well i dont know wether they are actually telling the truth but they say i am : kind friendly easy to...

I've only let it get to a peck on the lips. I've no desire so should I really be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I'm 27 and I've never been in a proper, long-term relationship. First, work got in the way and then I had a few very short term relationships with guys who didn't treat me well. Recently I met a great guy. He's so nice, treats me really well, res...

Should I forget about him all together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - i am not sure about how to propose a guy who is very much studious and not in too much of girl friend boy friend matter. i dont understand should i continue with him as friends and forget about love and all that or should i try to speak to him.i ...

Tips on how to ask out girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...

In an environment like this, how can I find Mr. Right?

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1 August 2009 (?) - Well, I broke up with my ex a few months ago. Right now, I am trying to fight the urge to get back with him but I really do want to because of one reason that I know is not reasonable. Because I am ALONE and LONELY. Sometimes, I feel he wants me...

He said 'this is our new room', but I haven't moved in with him! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - My bf just moved into to a new house. I didnt move in with him and have never lived with him before. When he showed me around his new house, when he showed me his new bedroom he said "this is our new room" and he even has a place for me to put my ...

I want to do something for my girlfriend that shows I really care about her, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and I have been together for three months now. I want to do something for her to show her I really care, but it has to be something really thoughtful and sensitive...you know...something that she'll know I had to put a l...

My boyfriend has sex with me at the weekend, then goes back to porn during the week! I don't know how to handle this, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - MY boyfriend and i have been togeather since Dec. 2008 and he ive caught him watching porn and he admits to it but when im talking to him at night and he gets off the phone early i ask him if he is really going to bed and tells me yes. but today i ...

How can I tell my ex's friend that I like her without my ex getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - So I really like this girl but I dated her friend a couple years ago and she still has feelings for me because of this her friend won't go out with me. If I hurt her friend her and everyother girl in my school will hate me. How can i tell her i dont ...

Should I trust my instincts, or give this guy more time to grow on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Should I trust my instincts or is that unfair? I used to always trust my instincts when it came to relationships, what would work and what wouldn't, and it always turned out well. Until my last boyfriend, when I ignored my doubts and went for it ...

Me and my friend like the same guy! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - we need help!!!! me and one of my best friends like the same guy. what should we do?here it goes. my best friend lives right by him and i don't. we need to think of a fair way to c who should get him. i only c him when i'm at her house. can u pl...

I don't want to end things with my boyfriend, but what can I do about his immaturity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I was pretty desperate one night and decided to browse the internet for some help and came across this website! My problem is my immature boyfriend. We have been going out for a little more than a year now, and I really really like him...

When I am with a woman I care about, why do I let their sexual history bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - I don't think I'm alone, but why is it sex to me often seems like the great equalizer? I've been with women who have long and varied sexual histories and it's never bothered me. But on the few occasions when I was with a woman who I cared about, ...

Jealous over walpaper?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - i came home from college today. i asked my mom to drop me off mu boyfriends house. he was excited to see me as i was to sew him. when we did see each other, we hugged and what not. not soon after, he found my cellphone wallpaper was of zac efron. i ...

Was it the scene or was is something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask something that may seem simple to some people but is confusing me. I have always identified as bisexual and have had 2 serious relationships with women. I am currently single. I am involved in a play at the moment w...

Is it love bypolar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - why would a chap i have known for years and at times been sexually involved with, suddenly tell me , he is frustrated in his present relationship and cannot commit? ...

I love them both, how do I pick just one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Long story short, I love 2 great Men. I have made some bad decisions, and want to choose right this time! "A" and I met a year ago on dating site. After 2 phone calls, I booked a flight to meet him. 4 amazing months with him, and I fell hard....

Head over heals for my BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - So, my problem started when I fell for my best friend. It's the typical cliche story. Though, he treats me horribly and I can't seem to tell him where to go. The past two years I've been dealing with depression, paranoia, anxiety and going to ...

Txt games with my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - okay so i had this boyfriend since 2006 we been on and off since then. i gave him all my heart and i love him so much. i stood agains my family for him n he wouldnt do thhe same for me but i ignored it... for valentines day we went out for a ro...