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Archived questions from: 28 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why can't I go to my boyfriend's place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My bf refuses to take me over his place? What does this mean?!!!!Does he live with another girl?...

I'm not sure the relationship is more serious, but I don't want to be just used for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Before I left college I was sleeping with a boy for a couple of months. We then broke up for summer and we carried on talking but because we live far away from each other I had basically stopped really thinking about him. I saw him recently out of ...

Why hasn't it ever worked out with someone I've dated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Theoughout all my experiences with men I always find myself in the SAMe situation. The first few weekS are great, they won't stop texting,calling and trying to spend time with me, but unfortunately after those few weeks it All stopS. They all have ...

What can I do to make her come back??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) - My girlfriend of over a year recently broke up with me. She is 17, i'm 19. She said she wants to be single and date around and doesn't want to be tied down to one person right now, which I understand seeing how we are both young. I love her to death ...

She didn't tell me her ex is drunk-dialing -- am I making a big deal over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Is it your responsibility to tell your significant other if an ex is attempting contact with you? I have been living with my girlfriend of 2 years for about 1 year now. her boyfriend prior to me broke up with her about 5 months before we starte...

My life is a mess! How can I sort it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - help big time!! I have been with a very emotionally unstable man for two years on the first of september. I have a child with another man. I am in debt. so there are my three problems. this man has an unforgiving heart. he meet me an...

Should I borrow money from my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Does anyone have an opinion about whether one should ever ask to borrow money from your bf, especially if it's a sensitive point? I am nearly broke and don't know if I can last till next paycheck. I can't ask family at this point, and have a...

Unsure about dating and feel really cold..don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I find myself in a bit of a dilema and would like some advice/help. I'm very nervous around guys and never feel good enough for them, but there is a guy I really really like and he is really keen on me for some reason, we have kissed but I felt ...

How can I make him change without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about half a year but we've been best friends for about 4 years. At first, everything started out great but soon i began to notice things that really bugged me. One, he doesn't drive so I'm always driving us ...

I like this boy, but I'm worried my cousin will tease us and ruin everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Hey, So i met this boy last week at out static caravan where we come every weekend. We got to know each other and soon, We found out we both felt strongly about each other. He asked me out over msn and I said "i dont know because we will only see...

I'm scared to have sex, but he told me there is nothing to be afraid of. Is that true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - this boy i like i told him i loved him and he said he loves me too. i was like omg he loves me, and he sed that he wants sex with me all the time and i said im scaird to and he said thers nothing to be afraid of. is that true i have nothing to be ...

Is this guy he's talking about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - i'm not sure if one of my guy friends likes me, he texts me everyday, hugs me alot and a couple of days ago he put his arm round me. we were talking and he said that he couldnt tell me who he and his friend were talking about and then i asked could ...

How can I make our time together even more romantic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hai, My girlfriend is coming round my place very soon, Last time when I was with her we relaxed in this hammock in the forest near by, This then gave me the brilliant idea of having the same sort of thing near my place, Seeing as school starts back ...

How do I make sure I never lose my boyfriend and show him how crazy I am about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - i am in involved in a serious relationship with a guy who is so crazy about me for a year and i want this relationship to last for ever. so far i have not seen him doing something that really hurt me but he always does good to me. i need some ...

How do I approach girls to get their phone numbers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I've always loved to have a girl to share my life with but anytime i meet a girl i am interested in, i do find it difficult to approach her even to the point of getting her phone number cos i don't know what to say. plz how do i approach them? ...

Should I message him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - ok this guy i like alot sort of went hot and cold when we went camping the weekend just gone. my friend has told me he said he can see a future with me and stuff which is really good and we've always had little moments. anyways camping he w...

Should I tell him I want us to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - alright...ive met this boy at a pool hall and hes so cute and such a gentleman.well on our first date i told him i was looking for a relationship and he said im not.well we've since then just been friends with benefits well now hes saying he really ...

I was trying to make him jealous but now he won't talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Okay, my problem really buggs me. Im 14 and i went away for a while and I made a friend named "Chloe", shes a girl and shes 17. Shes pretty hot but i think im prettier. While we were there we met a guy, "Bob" hes 18 and i told her i liked him and he ...

How can I let her know that I'm willing to wait until she is ready for us to be together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i broke up the other day on good terms after a long good relationship. She says she just needs to figure some things out, we are still friends and still see eachother. I'm just wondering how to let her know that I am willing to ...

Is that normal or am I hot?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - okay I'm 22 6,3 with brown hair and I never had a girlfriend because I'm really shy for some unexplained reason so lately I have been noticing that wherever I go if there's a girl they almost always look at me like if im at a store and I pass a ...

Random marriage question, what to make of it, HELP?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I was just hanging out with a guy that I have been dating for 4 months and he asked a random question that really caught me off guard. Hoping to get some perspective on this. We have only been officially in a relationship for a little over a month, ...

We're back together, but he goes to school with an old fling, will I get hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for two and half years and everything was great until about a year ago when he (pretty much) out of the blue decided that he was to young to be in such a committed relationship and wasnt sure about us at the moment. ...

Not happy with my b/f's action and now I'm seeing my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy i work with for almost a year, we both have 2 jobs and the time we spend together is mostly late at night when he comes over to sleep. I've been bothered for a while about him having a lot of female co-workers numbers and the ...

How can I get my friend's number or email without it being obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Heya, so the deal is i just met this amazingly beautifull smart girl in 9th grade, 3 days ago. We both connect really well. She doesn't seem to have many friends(from my knowledge, i dont know her personal life)I never see her talking to many ...

Why do women flirt with me and then think I'm a loser for asking them out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a question about flirting. Why do women do this and then seem so surprised to be asked out? I've asked out a few women over the years, thinking they were interested. In the majority of cases the women have then proceeded to completely ...