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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Dating a new guy and he's going away for a month...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I met a man 2 weeks before through a friend. We hit it off and have met a couple of times ever since. He did tell me that he has been divorced last year and has a 3 yr old child. his ex wife and child lives in another country, he visits his ch...

I thought I was going to be engaged by Christmas, now my whole life is turned up side down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - hey there! I have been in a 4 year relationship, we have talked about getting married and being together on many different occasions. We are each others first loves, I have dated other guys prior to dating him, but he had not. Recently he broke up w...

I don't feel special in this relationship - I feel like I'm in her shadow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - hello, I have to warn you guys of the length of this post- but I hope a few of you read it and give me some good advice. I have been with a man for about 2 years and to be honest things are pretty good. We live together and he is a wonderful part...

Cheated with my ex and confused about which one I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - So I have been with this guys for almost 2 months. I haven't seen him in 1 month and a week because of vacation, but just last weekend I went to a friend's house and I cheated on him with my ex.. I know its bad to cheat but I just don't know who to ...

Confused about a new girl's behavior to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I recently got out of a relationship and one of my female friends who wants me to get out and about again suggested I get in contact with one of her girlfriends. I don't usually listen to suggestions like that from my friends but been feeling kinda ...

I'm so very confused about why I feel the way I do! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I have had 3 loves in my life. Only 2 I dated and one was my best friend, which during a few times with my exs, I still had feelings for. I was so sure about these men being the one for me. I spent countless nights talking/imagining having kids ...

Girl A, Girl B and me! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I may like this boy I have been hanging out with recently. But he was in a relationship with girl a then dumped her for girl b because he loved girl b but girl b dumped him after couple of days. Girl b is my friend. What do i do?????????????...

How do I tell him I'm interested now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - im 21years old and i've been friends with this guy 5yrs nw and he said he really liked me but i didn't like him in that. till now i started to see him in a different way and don't know how to tell him. can you help me?...

My head is all mixed up in this affair I'm having.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I met a man two and half years ago. I was going thro a divorce and he said he was leaving his wife. having had affair for a year with him he did leave his wife.He has become obsessive and controlling to the point he has turned my room upside down. ...

Am I being selfish for wanting more affection from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - hi ive been seeing some1 for 4months now,ive known him awhile but im already totally in love with him, but he shows no affection im wondering if he even likes me never mind loves me we could go weeks without even kissing or cuddleing even thou we ...

What do you think of our situation? I'm cheating with a girl who can't leave her relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - im dating a girl but she has a boyfriend. she told me the first time we met so she never lied to me. we talk everyday and we like each other a lot.. she tells me that she likes me more but shes been with him for 5 years now and she cant just ...

Do I tell him I like him on our first date or wait a little longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for two months now.We talk to each other on the phone a lot when we're not too busy. We'll be going on our first date this weekend scine we met two months ago. My feelings for him is getting stronger, do i tell him when we meet ...

How can I stay in touch over a long distance without being clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I met a great guy an we dated for about 3 weeks. Now we communicate long distance over text message and facebook, but I don't know how to initiate conversation, or what to say to keep in touch.We both promised we would stay in touch, but I ...

I love flirting, so why do girls seem to lose interest after a few months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - why when i start flirting with girls they get very interested as some of the girls they have always admired me for a very long time and then we start flirting and joking they say all nice things and how they feel when they are with me though they ...

How do I take it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year.. and we're both still to shy to really talk to each other.. we text, he calls me but the only time he really says something really sweet to me is when we text.. I want to kiss him so bad! I w...

She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks....

Will we last when he moves away for school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - we're in highschool..and in love. and honestly,after two years, i feel like our relationship has been structured perfectly. i'm just worried..because next year hes going off to Boston for prep school..however will be returning before college. w...

I don't know who I want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for over a year and i was pretty happy, although at times i felt so controlled by him like he didnt like me going out to parties and drinking or anything and he'd get really overprotective. At a friends party one night ...

I'm not sure I fancy the man I'm seeing, but I don't want to lose him either! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who has recently started a new relationship. We met through an online site, and on the first date I thought 'well I don't fancy him, but he makes me laugh and I feel very safe with him' We went on some more dates which were ...

My boyfriend doesn't tust me, and now he wants us to just be friends. I'm so confused, what does he really want from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now, and i am a bit confused as to where this is going. We meet my freshman year in college in the library, he is 23 and i am 20... Every since the first time we got together, we have been INSEPRABLE. That ...

My girlfriend says that sex is painful. Is she telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I have gf friend dat have dating for year now. Any time we make love she either cry or shout dat is painfull. Is she pretending or truly painful as she claimed....

I want to wait before having sex with my boyfriend, but he makes me feel bad about it...and there are other problems too...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My bf is trying to pressure and manipulate me into having sex with him. I keep saying that I want to wait. Im not saying no, just not right now as I want to know him better and I think trust needs to be built, and that level of trust can only be ...

My boyfriend's best friend is very attractive...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Been with my bf for 9 months and I love him so much. The problem is that I find his best friend extremely attractive and I find myself thinking about him all the time. I think he might find me attractive too because he always hangs out with me in ...

Girlfriend spends much time with her married guy friend and it bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has a married guy friend that she spends time with, including having him over to her house for dinner and drinks and occationally going out to dinner with drinks. The mans wife is also her dear friend and supports the friendship that ...

Boyfriend's brother just messing with me? Or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - So, Ive been with this guy for about 2 years, we're not so good together In my opinion, tried to break It off numerous times, never worked cuz hes really over dramatic and does seriously everything to make me stay so I have pity on him. I met his ...

I like them both..now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - okay so i have a boyfriend i have been dating for 8 months.. and i love him dearly whenever i am with him it is perfect, and people say they can tell we are in love. but i liked this one other guy a year or so ago, and now i sorta like him again and ...

I just want a chance to tell him how I feel...what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hey there, about two years ago I met the love of my life, my true love and at the time I didn’t realize how I felt until I let him go. Long story short I had a boyfriend for fours that treated me like crap. I broke up with my BF of 4 years to be ...

He said there is no spark anymore...and I love him so much!! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I met in high school and have been together for almost 4 years. Since the day I met him I knew he was "the one". We've been through so much in our relationship and have come a long way. We've talked about marriage and babies and ...

Funny little marks under my breasts! Would it be unattractive to men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Okay. This question is mainly for males becuase im wondering what they think. I have little spots (not freckles or beauty marks) probably irritated hair follicles or something under my breasts. there not very dark at all but they personally bother m...

We're in love...is it possible at our age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Basically before this guy, i didnt believe in serious relationships in your adolescence. i met him freshmen year and now we're going into junior year and still together, even though i switched schools. our relationship has been nearly perfect with ...

Is there such a thing as too perfect a relationship???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

Girlfriend refuses to show bikini

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12 August 2009 (M) - Hello, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now. However now that college has come around, I am living in my dorm room. She told me that she was going to go swimming at the ocean today, and said she had a new bikini. I asked ...