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Archived questions from: 6 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Hes 20, I'm 15 and parents are against it...heeelppp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - im going out with a 20 year old and im 15. we both like each other a lot. my parents found out and wont let me go out anywhere or talk to anyone. what do i do? me and him have been talkin for a year. been together 6 months ago and broke up because ...

He stills flirts but he has a girlfriend now.. so why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I have know this guy for about 7 years. He’s a great guy, down to earth with A good sense of humor. He knows that I like him and have feeling for him. We saw each other off and on through out those years with out any commitment which was ok wit...

Why do his feelings always seem to change for me every other day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - 36 with 41 year old man he says I am the cause of him being unhappy. I have tried everything I can to make him happy. His big thing is that I don't see things his way that I never agree with him. He says I don't bring anything to the table. That I h...

Why am I never happy... and so clingy?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Why am I not happy in my relationship sometimes? I love him so much, this I know; but when he goes out with his friends, or goes on trips without me, I get mad at him. I don't know why I'm like this. I get so bothered if he even mentions the idea of ...

Do you think he could be serious about marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - My BF came round to see me and meet my parents for the first time the other day. Whilst we were out walking together he made mention that maybe we should tell my parents that we were engaged just to see how they'd react. At the time I thought he was ...

What are the signs that a girl likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - Hello, can anyone help me please? I have been working with a girl at work for nearly two years now and I REALLY, REALLY like her. I consider us to be very close friends but would really like to know how I could tell whether she fancies me too ...

How can I learn to play it cool when I'm interested in a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - well am 22 years old female and am a good looking girl my problem is that i get so confused in front of good looking guys i mean i show that am so intrested and i dont wanna be that way , then when the moment passes i go crazy and blame my self for ...

I want our first kiss to be perfect, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few weeks now, we've been friends for a few months n we both decided to tell each other how we felt and things have been great. officially we've only been on 3 real dates and I havent yet kissed him. so far thin...

True Love Waits. Is that okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - i have a friend who met this guy who is eight and half years older then her, she met him when she was three. they sorta grew up together, he was so much like a big brother to her growing up she always sat in his lap and hold his hand and she ...

Totally confused woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - im from England, aged 24, and i used to work on cruise ships in 2007 and had the time of my life!!! i loved the lifestyle as i was constantly busy and meeting new people from all over the world. while i was there, i met a man who was from America ...

I've seen my crush in a different light!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I am not to sure what to think, I quite like this guy I work with and we flirt a lot and we were on a works night out last night and one of the girls I worked with got with another bloke and they were the talk of the office today. The guy I like ...

I want him to think I'm amazing, but will he since I'm so inexperienced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I am lookiing for some advice, I am quite a shy 25 year old female and I have fallen for a guy for the first time, he is the only guy I have ever felt attracted to and he seems into me as well, we have kissed a couple of times and I know it is early ...

I love him but if doesn't return that, why can't he just be a gentleman about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I think it is time to let go of the man i have loved for years. he tells me he loves me yet he dont phone me when he say he will. he lives in england and that is were we did meet i have visit england many times and he has visit me 3 times. the last ...

If anyone has been in this situation, I would like to hear what you did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi all , I'm really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked me out . I was stil...

How can I show her that she can trust me, and I don't want to hurt her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - Why she doens't trust me? i have shown more than once how much I love her, she repeated it too, i did mistakes in the past, I've never been unfaithful but i have been not nice to herin the past, i haven't shown that i trust to her, but all that was ...

He got a new girlfriend and now I don't know what to say. What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I'm in college and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. I went home for the summer to take care of some family issues. When I first left we called and texted each other all day, everyday, but soon that became less and less. We were testing ...

I'm bipolar, I don't want to scare her away. Should I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - I have recently been seeing someone and we get along very well. shes lovely I like her a lot and vice versa. however I have something on my mind which is bothering me. I'm bipolar and I don't know if I should tell her this. It shouldn't be wrong to ...

Help! How can I stop him from making me feel stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now. He was newly divorced when we first got together. I love him and he is good to me but when we get into an argument he talks to me like I am stupid and then he always threatens to leave. Sometimes he does ...

I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I need urgent help; I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop. He's away on holiday, and I've been getting close to this guy the last month or so. Last night we went to the cinema and he held my hand and stroked my leg, then on the way home we ...

Does education matter in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I met this wonderful man, fell in love, everything was going great until he told me that he would not marry me until I earned my bachelor's degree. At first I didn't care because I was in college when he met me and I intend to finish with or without ...

He's never shown signs that he was interested but all of a sudden he gave me a hug!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I am new to this forum and would really appreciate some help. I am attracted towards a man whom I know for more than 2 years, I can tell that there is a spark between us. However, until now we have been like friends. He has never touched me...

I feel so hurt, he wont speak to me because I told people about our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy, i really like him, we have had sex a few times and he wants to keep it discreet although i know he is seeing other people, he has told me a lot about what he gets up to. He wont speak to me cos i have told people ive seen him! What ...

Does she consider me a friend, or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - hey there, i think i am a man full of confusions when it comes to man-woman relationships. i am a 24 years old virgin never had a girl in my life, i think it is not bcause i have negative feelings for girls, rather i am a strong believer that girls ...

Why does my baby's father treat me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - my baby father i been with him since i was 15 and we have two kids and he cheats he calls me names he dont come see the kids he dont care about me i never cheated he make me feel like im not worth it no man will ever want me what should i do do he ...

Do you think I've still got a chance with him? And if not how can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - hi every1!i'm 15 yo.i had this huge crush on this boy called'wb'we go 2 the same school but now its summer break n i havent seen him since the last day at school!!!!!he went 2 canada i think!! i still think of him all the time and i dream about hi...

Survey: Is finding a mate a trial and error thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi I was just wondering.. I just broke up with my bf and I promise myself not to stumble with someone like him anymore. But how will I make sure I wont attract the same type of person? Right now, I have met one online. And to be honest, I am h...

My girlfriend told me she loved me but I don't know what to say back to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - well it has been 1 month and a half in the relationship. just the other day she told me that " i love u" on the phone. i did not know what to say back to her, i just was in shock. dont know what to do... help....

Are these symptoms of a possible pregnancy, or am I being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and i'm starting to get a little worried about possibly being pregnant.. I lost my virginity to my bf on the 28th of june.. we had sex three times that day: once protected, once not, and then protected again. He never "finished" inside m...

Love thy neighbour... why hasn't he approached me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I have this big crush on my neighbor i'm sure he's interested in me but never has made a serious move. It's the little thing he was doing like watching me jog on the track,staring and smiling all the time but why hasn't he approched me? ...

Is he playing games, or does he want to get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - Why does my ex keep calling me twice a month and talking for only about 10 minutes when he has told me he doesn't want to be together anymore? Sometimes he says things to make me feel like there may be a chance for us and then he does the same thing ...

She's beautiful , popular and I trust her, how can I stop being jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently started dating, but we have been friends for a long time and we know each other very well so I know what kind of girl she is and I know that she is COMPLETELY trustworthy and I do trust her 100%...however, I have been ...

I'm confused and sad because maybe he never even loved me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - dear cupid; ive been dating my boyfriend for around a year with some breaks in between, i had my first time with him..the relationship has never been stable sometimes it is super nice sometimes it is bad...i had many arguments with him for little t...

Is there such a thing as a non boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - hey this is a long one but i really need opinions here so please read through :) about 4 months ago months ago, one of my housemates and i started hooking up (gonna call him Tim). hes 27 and im 21. at first it was just fun making out and stuff bu...

Its been 3 days should I text or call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

6 August 2009 (M) - I met this girl at a festival she came over and talked to me and we hit off, I got her number and called her the next day and we met at the festival again and hung out all day. It went well. When I went home she said she would call or text me, just ...

Why won't she kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - why wont she kiss me ? I have been friends with this girl sense January and over the last few months it has become more. we talk all the time and text like 20 times a day. we have been intimate in bed, only. I have tried to kiss her like t...