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We had sex and haven't talked since!! I don't understand her.

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Question - (29 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

So I met this woman, we went out a couple of times, spent the night the first night (only to third base, my decision. yes, I'm a guy!) In the morning she asked me to come back over that night (watch tv). I did. For the next week I get 3-8 texts/day from her, a week later we go out again, I spend the night (yes, sex). Haven't talked to her since (5 days). What's her deal???? (I know it's not the sex, it was all night into the morning, two hours of sleep, then more sex, it was awesome). So, again, What's her deal?

From a man who thought he knew!!!

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2008):

hannah76 agony auntShe may have taken you as a challenge, 3rd base at first which could have been odd for her, so she wanted to get you to go further. When she had had sex with you, the challenge had gone. Afterwards, she may have realised she was far too easy and been upset at herself.

Had she just finished a long term relationship? Had her ex been sexually active with her in recent months? Was she lonely for a man? Insecure? felt unattractive?

When you made her feel good, things may have become clearer to her. just a few thoughts. xxx

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (29 October 2008):

Danielepew agony auntFrom a man who sees the situation from outside: she had the sex she wanted. Period, end of story, grand finale. Find someone else who will also "fool around" with you.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (29 October 2008):

DoubleM agony auntBeats me. You are hopefully not trying to really "understand" women are you? One of my favorite sayings comes from the script of "Titanic" when the elder lady states, "A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets."

Anyway, my experience includes quite a few of those, although not usually following only one night of sex. My way is to initiate one followup (call or whatever), then to wait. If no immediate response, then wait longer. If no response, then I blow it off and let it go - moving on to the next. For me, anything else would show desperation or neediness.

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