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Should I tell her how I feel so early on in the relationship or should I wait?

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Question - (29 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When beginning a relationship is it ok to talk about how one another feels about them, or should i just wait it out and let things run its course?

I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 weeks and I know from past relationships and my feelings that i am more in love with her than i could possibly imagine, but i dont know how she feels about me, if secretly she dosent like me and wants to end it soon.

I know I'm sounding stupid and she probably really likes me as well, but i want assurance because my past 2 EXs basically used me and didnt care about me, do you think me bringing this topic up will scare her and make her leave??

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A female reader, jaime90 Australia +, writes (29 October 2008):

jaime90 agony auntNo it wont scare her. Talk about what happened with your past relationships(not going into any details about the girls of course, but letting her know how you felt at the time and what happened). She will most likely want to know how your feeling. Talking about your feelings is a very important thing in a relationship. You have no reason to hide what your feeling.

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