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writes:I'm in love with this guy and he loves me but my best friend or supposedly, keeps making remarks about him and saying that she doesn't like him. When she doesn't even know him, also on my birthday he came round to wish me happy birthday but she made him feel unwelcome and left within 30 mins. How can I make her know what she is making me feel like?? It kills me inside to know that the people I love most can't be in the same room..She also makes me feel like I'm at fault. I only see him twice a week and the rest of the week I am normally with her or doing homework. It's not like I'm neglecting her. I'm not at fault am i???
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reader, crazyinthemind  +, writes (9 January 2010):
I know exactly how you feel! As hard is that is, the worst part about everything is the guilt! My best friend and I have been friends our whole life and do everything. I finally got a boyfriend that I have fallen in love with and she blames every change in my life on him. He is a good guy and thinks that I am now a horrible person because I no longer am able to constantly hang out with her. There truly is no easy way around it. No matter what anyone says the worst part is trying to talk to her. For me when we try and talk it is always her talking and me listening, trying not to hurt her I don’t want to argue. It’s hard, but just make sure that you don’t ruin your relationship with the person you love because yes he may leave you, but if she is a true friend she will realize that you are happy! It sucks!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): i think your friend need to back off. if she really cared about you she would not be acting so jelouse
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe doesn't know him she only moved up from england 4 years ago and she has never talked to him before i started too. he is in non of her classes apart from english even then they are in the same class as me.
she is just being a bitch how can i tell her that??
im just starting to wonder if she just wanted to be my friend for the sake of it. so she would have someone to hang about with. plus she is always making me and me other friends fall out by saying things to everyone of us that we apartenly said about each other and we confront each other with honesty and we tell each other the truth and it always comes back to her starting it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Dont put that though her mind or shell think anything her friend says about him is true
Your not at fault here really I think she needs to back off out of that part of your life tell her to stop
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (29 October 2008):
 You need to talk to her there may be a million reasons why she doesn't like him and you will never know unless you ask her,
She may be jelouse but it could be something much more like she may know him and you may not know they know eachother or she knows something about him and is not wanting to tell you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Good luck and talk to her.
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