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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. She is a few years older than me and had a few partners before we met. I was a virgin when we met. It came out a while ago that she was unhappy with our sexual relationship and had lied about her number of previous sexual partners. I had some physical/psychological problems for about six months afterwards that didn't help the situation.Ever since, I haven't been able to see her the same way. I always question my performance and wonder if I can move past this.Is it possible to move past this? Can anyone give me some advice? I love her but don't know if I can deal with this. Reply to this Question
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 There are so many threads on here about the same thing. Honestly, i dont know if you can. My boyfriend cant, but what i have noticed is he is getting better at controlling his thoughts. Men always feel insecure about measuring up to their girlfriends past experiences. If she is unhappy maybe you should ask her what would make her happy? Find out what she wants.
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