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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I was with my boyfriend for 4 and half months. We spilt up in the space 3 days, he had a new girlfriend and he rings me up saying he would still like to see me but now he's been moody and moaning at me just because I still have feelings for him, he was my one. Now I think I am pregnant! He made it obvious he doesn't want me or the baby! I don't know what to do? plz help
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reader, agony aunt floss +, writes (30 October 2008):
Dear anonymous,
At the end of the day you should do whats best for the child you can either cut your ex out of the picture and start a new life with your child or you can pester you ex for help take him to court and try and do everything your way. hope everything goes well.
.Agony Aunt Floss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Go see your doctor and have the pregnancy confirmed. Talk to the doctor about your various options.
Then you will have to decide what you want to do.
"We do have choice, but not without some agony".(quote by Josephine Hart).
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhiya eva1 thanx 4 ur help
he know and i took few test its positive
i couldn't think i could do on my own
i haven't got job i cant support myself but i don't wont people know if i do get rid :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Dear Poster
I think you must relax; stop stressing, first do a pregnancy test and or go to your doctor to find out if you are pregnant.
It does not help discussing a possible pregnancy with your ex; he will think it is just your way of trying to get him back.
Make sure of your facts; when you have the results you can, if you are pregnant contact him and discuss it with him. He might not come back to you; but then you can decide on the way forward.
For now, the most important is to relax; stress can also have an effect on your periods and can delay it.
Best wishes and keep us posted.
Keep smiling.
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