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30-35,
*hejumpoff
writes:Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. he has constantly denied it saying its in junk for a reason, and that a computer has registered him, and got in a mood when i didnt believe him. However i saw his computer history today and him registering is there. i mentioned this to him and he said he didnt, but its on his laptop at 1am in the morning and the only other person is his brother who could have done it who says he didn,t and hes only 15. so i dont see why he would, and he doesnt know my boyfriends hotmail password. Now my boyfriend is in a mood that i dont believe him. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, colors  +, writes (30 October 2008):
I can tell you that you have to register your information to receive mail from AFF my ex-husband did the same thing to me before we split up and I caught him. He was not a payed member but he was able to receive and send a certain amount of ,messages a day. I can say that some of the people that are on there dont realy meet with
others for sex. They are trilled with the idea of sex over the net, but most on there actually meet for sex. Then again
He may just be curious. I would try and have a talk with him and ask him to be honest and put all the cards on the table. If he is there for curiousity ask him to allow you to see his account and messages. There is nothing wrong with having sexual fantacies but I feel that they should be shared with the partner. Bestof luck... Hope things work out for you. I know it hurts to expirience your case.
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reader, sledge  +, writes (29 October 2008):
I would first find out if he is actually paying for the service, because if he is not then it doesn't matter if he is registered. He might have just been checking it out not looking to leave you or cheat on you. Talk to him find out why he was on it maybe it was nothing serious. I don't think they randomly spam, you do have to register to receive mail from them. So he did register, for some reason. Maybe just to see the newsletter they send out.good luck
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