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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Right now I'm dating a guy who I really, really like but I don't know what I should do about him. He ignores me all the time, and when I ask him why he says that he doesn't want to be too clingy. I understand that, but now it's gotten to the point where he wont even say hi to me before school, give me a hug when ever we see each other in the halls, and sit with all his other friends in the classes we do have together! Some of his friends that I'm friends with too tell me that he ignores my text messages purposly, and that he sometimes will trash me behind my back in a joking way. I'm sick of being treated like this, but also, whenever we are alone, he's the sweetest guy ever, and if I do talk to him about it, he'll tell me that he's sorry, and that he'll try to fix it, and for a few days, he will. But then it's back to the way it was before and I don't know if I should just dump him, or if I should stay with him. Please help!
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Dump him because he's not mature enough to have a relationship with you. He ignores you in front of his friends, he ignores your messages when he's with his friends, and yet when you're alone, he's all lovey dovey. He doesn't want to seem "whipped" and he's probably taking some serious teasing about having a girlfriend, so he's taking the jerk route and putting you down.
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