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writes:I was dating a guy that I fell in love with for about a year. He has kids I have kids. We were pretty involved. Life happened and our path ended. His life needed him in one way and my life took me another. We still talk from time to time, less because I think dealing with this break up was hard on the both of us. Now we ended with the notion that one day if we get our separate lives in order that we would be back with one another and have a more serious relationship when we both had the time to put towards it. Well that is all well and good. Four moths go by and I am pretty lonely and well a few partners happened, really no big deal in my book, because it was just sex and nothing more. The bad thing is, one of the guys well was his 21 year old brother. We went out to celebrate his 21st and well things happened. I could have chalked it up to being drunk, but again in the morning after we slept off the alcohol. His brother wants this to got to our graves and I am fine with that. We both are not happy with the way we acted and we don’t think bringing it up to anyone would solve anything. Well it just so happens the guy is coming back around and we have been talking a lot more. Were both still not ready for a relationship with one another, but he is getting closer. I feel so bad that I am pushing away; my mind says I do not deserve to get close to him ever again. I do care for him, despite my actions. Are kids love each other and enjoy being around one another that I don’t want to end there relationship. I guess my question is, do I have any right to tuck what happened with his brother away forever, well at least try, and still be open to the idea of a future relationship? Or have I destroyed any and all chances?
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 ide say you were both single so you were free to do what you liked as prob has he. although no i wouldnt of slept with his brother. im normally up for confessing but if you do it prob would ruin it and it would prob be bad for him and his brother relationship. i would keep quite but never forget what you have learnt from it take it as a lesson in life one that you shouldnt have done. just take it easy with him and see how it goes. fate has a twisted way of workign out good luck aphex xx
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