A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: hello everybody, I have a problem with my boyfriend, I had a talk with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, my boyfriend has a very hard time expressing his feelings and affection, he is extremelly shy and he gets embarazed of everything. We have been together for almost 9 months, when we are together everything is perfect. He is 29 and I am his first real relationship and he has always told me that he has strong feelings for me and that he has never met anyone like me, he has always say that I am perfect for him. The only times that he talks about his feelings is when he realized that his lack of showing affection makes me sad. I told him the other day that I cannot be with someone that cannot show me affection, because i need to feel that I am important for the guy i am with. So when i talked to him he told me that he was going to try his best to show me more affection, this is a guy who has grew up in a family where no one shows affection, his parents are always fighting, and I know that the feelings he is having for me is something very new for him. So he said he was going to try, so the last couple of days he has changed completelly radical, he has been calling me and texting me way more than what he normally does, so i don't know how to take this behavior. is he sincere?
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