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anonymous
writes:Please help me, I dont know if my boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend?We have been together for 5 weeks now, he is never sentimental with me. When i confronted him about this he got angry with me and told me i was being stupid, when i cried he got more angry. When he split with his ex, it was his decision because he said for the past year they werent happy and hadnt slept together for a year and she ‘annoyed’ him because she never ate. That was the only reason he gave me for leaving her. They were together for 4 and a half years since they were 16. When they split he took six weeks off work for depression, and a month later a further two weeks, during these two weeks he got together with me. Am i just there to fill the gap he now has? The only time he has ever said he loves me is when he is drunk. If i ask him if he does he just goes “you know i do” dismissivlyWhat do i do? He has shown me where she used to liveand even the texts that she sent him saying she wants to talk, but he says he didnt reply. Why has he shown me these things?We drove past her house the other day and he craned his neck so far to see her house he nearly lost control of the car, then when i stopped talking as he did this he just smirked. Please help me. Does it mean he still loves her or is trying to make me jealos so i love him more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou :( i thought that but i needed to check! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Im sorry but it sounds as if he still loves her...why would he look so hard at where she lives...I want to advise you to please leave this guy alone..I have been in this situation..and its almost the worst hurt emotionally...when you feel second best...and he's always talking about her...you will feel used and your confidence and self esteem will be hit so hard that you will feel emotionally drained..I've been through it and I will advise you to leave..he doesn't even show you emotion...and gets angry when you cry..trust me you are just their to fill up his time...and to build his ego so that he can heal himself and move on...please do not stay with him any longer...I hope you listen to me...because I've been through it and the pain is agonizing...I don't want to sound mean but LEAVE him!!!...go and I don't care how much he begs don't go back because it will never change.
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