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Do I go for the new guy or give my relationship a chance?

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Question - (6 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year. Recently things haven't been the same and I told him I wanted to break up with him. He said we could work through our problems and doesn't want to let me go so I agreed. The thing is I met another really great guy. We talk all the time he's so sweet and kind. Now he's told me he likes me and asked me out. He knows about my boyfriend and I don't know if he just assumes I will break up with him or what but I'm so confused! I really like this new guy but I don't feel as if I'm giving my relationship the proper chance beacuase he's the first person I've loved. Help please!

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A female reader, Reebe United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2008):

Reebe agony auntOnly you know the answer to this, but the grass is not always greener.

you might regret leaving your boyfriend for this other guy, or he could be the man of your dreams.

You shouldn't feel like you HAVE to be with your boyfriend because he doesn't want you to leave, or that you have to stay because he was your first love.

To be honest if you were sure of this other guy, you wouldn't need to ask this question, you would just of left.

Maybe you should take some time out from both of them and decide who you want to be with, the answer might be that you don't want to be with either of them.

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