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writes: My girlfriend with my baby left me, she said that she wants to live for her own children from now on, therefore she needs to leave me alone, and because we live in conserved society, its forbidden to have relation with girls outside of marriage, but we could to have baby and refer him to her ex-husband and become officially his baby.Now and after 6 years of love and scarifying I’m very confusion about her , why she has left me after I asked her for marriage, what if she is with other guy, what he did for her to made her leave me and forget everything about me, prevent me from seeing my babyI felt that she wanted to leave me because she started to prevent me from seeing my son and her too, do everything she knows that I hate it, even not calling me, send me bad messages through people we know them together, lie on me, ignore me, acting as she hates me badly (say bad things about me, throw the gifts I brought to her).I feel that I lost my life with her, I miss my baby so much, I can’t forget any moment I spent with them, I can’t announce that is my son because and for sure I will destroy their life’s.I’m not sure if she is with other guy or not, but all what she is doing show me that, now what should I do for my baby, for the rest of life, for herIs this is the end? Does she will back to me? And if she returns to me should I forgive her? If she doesn’t return to me what should I do to keep saying my baby and take care of him? Please help me because everyday pass I feel terrible than before.
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reader, Danil +, writes (10 November 2008):
Danil is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your nice answer "secret angel7", but I couldn't use the law here at this country "Jordan", because that will destroy the life of both the Mother and daughter, beside I don`t know what should I do to forget them , this is the only solution I have at this time, and I should wait for miracle from the God to help me to see my daughter again ...... I really miss her so much.
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