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51-59,
*lower08
writes:Am having an affair with a married man. im single. its only just started. it wasnt ment to happen. he said he has been with his wife for 4 years and they have a baby. they dont sleep together anymore and she is having an affair said he was planning on leaving her next year when they sell the house. i feel bad because i know its wrong and he has not done this before either. am starting to fall for him. but it hurts sometimes when you can not talk at night and thinking if he is playing happy familys at home. however my question is ive just met a nice guy. he is divorced. nothing has happened but i feel like am cheeting on my married man. hes told me can do what i want as he is in no position to question my actions. but dont want to lose the connection we share only in the bedroom please help enlighten me......
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reader, blackroses2989  +, writes (7 November 2008):
 Sweetheart, I know you trust him and are starting to fall for this married man, but how can you be sure that a new mother is cheating on her husband. On the otherhand you dont really know that they dont sleep togther, I mean they must have if they have a baby, so whose to say they arent now? I just hope they patch things up or end it quick for the babys sake. And for your sake I'd say stick ot the single man. You never know whats it store! Maybe once you get to know him better you will have more in common than you did the other man. Good luck sweetie!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): Hi, have to agree with "kinkyboots" 9what a name!!!conjures up all sorts of images...sorry)LOL
if you found a nice unattached male and your "single" go for it....your married male lover will not leave his wife, he is just using you for sex and nothing more...promises promises promises mean nothing if he dosent follow through.
do you really want to be with someone that cheats?? yes we all have skeletons in the cupboard, but you know what his skeleton is up front...not a good way to start a relationship.
Go for the other guy.....and good luck
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