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writes:Well i didnt like anybody alot alot. i went to a party from a bat mitzvah so i was all dolled up. so i was dancing and partying and i realized that one guy that i knew in 1st grade, but then he moved away, was there. he was putting his arms around me when i was dancing and would come sit next to me when i was getting a drink. also, i was on a bench waiting for my parents and he laid down on the bench and put his head in my lap and i started playing wih his hair without thinking about it. Then after the party one of my friends told me that she liked that guy and that she was mad at my other friend cuz she liked him too. she had no idea that i liked the same exact guy. Then my friend (a third one) talked to him and asked if he liked anyone and he said no. then she asked if he knew me or remembered me and he said yeahhh shes really pretty! (!!!!!!!) but then i wouldnt wanna hurt my 2 other friends. i really wanna go to the movies with him or something but my friend (the one who likes him) keeps saying no cuz she doesnt want there to be drama between her and my other friend. i dont want this to become a competition even though i do have the upper hand in it. should i tell them i like him too? should i forget about him? what if i went out with him? they would get mad what should i say? HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, Katie_Loves_Dinasours +, writes (7 November 2008):
ok so I had like this same prob with my ex. so my ex first moved here and like 4 of my friends called "dibs" on him but he never went out with either of them. I wasn't interested in him at first but oh well. I've seen this happen so many times. if you like him and he likes you you shouldn't let your friends stand in the way they might be mad at you at first but they will get over it. but if you are like me and HATE having people mad at you, you can 1) wait till their crush fades or 2)stay away from him but I just waited but I think you should go for it I mean you two might end up with each other for the rest of your lives
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