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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:there is a girl who works behind the bar in my local pub. i liked her but never really spoke to her as I didn't know what to say. 2weeks ago she came after me and told me she liked me and wanted to go out with me. we have gone out a few times and had a good time. last week she was always texting me first and this week she hasn't. i know she needs love and so do I, but im not opening up to her the way I want to. I don't know whether im too slow or what. love takes time and also opening up to someone takes time as well. I don't know if im being parnoid in thinking maybe she has changed her mind. if she has I think its a little imature. can someone tell me if im too slow? I don't think you can say to someone that you love them after 2weeks and I think she maybe wants me to say that. what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): I agree with you. You only get to love someone in the true sense of the word after a much longer time than 2 weeks. What makes you think she's waiting for you to tell her you love her though?
Perhaps she feels you're not that interested in her if she's the one doing all the running and you only answer messages rather than initiate them.
Instead of telling her that you love her you could perhaps tell her you think she's as fit as f**k and fancy the arse off her? That should keep her happy for the time being.
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