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My partner and I both share a really good male friend... who I think I'm falling in love with!

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Question - (6 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I really need some ones advice as I'm going crazy.

Basically I have a partner of 3 years who I do love. We both share a really good male friend but me and this guy seem closer, we are like soul mates. We both admitted there's something there between us but didn't discuss it any further. I know I am fearing that I am falling in love with him and there's nothing I can to to stop it. Each time I see him and then he leaves I really miss him and can't stop thinking about him, does this mean I am in love with him???

We both are in a relationship and I have two children. A part of me wants to find out what he feels for me but then I think whatever answer I get back from him nothing could change as too many people would get hurt. Somone help me sort this mess in my head out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008):

What you should do is take a break away from seeing him spend more time with your current relationship and then see after a week or 2, if you are still feeling the same, if you are you must talk to this person then discuss with him what to do from then, but you may find after a week or 2 you may not have these feelings any more. You may just be spending more time with him than your current relationship and forget how it feels to be with your current relationship.

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