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writes:My b/f and I view certain things in our relationship differently and I don't know how to get around these differences. For one thing, sex is expendable to him when he's got other things on his mind. After a week or more of going without, I don't feel close to him. I become distant and depressed. I start having nightmares about him cheating on me (hence the lack of sex drive for me) I start having sleepless nights and when he wants to know why I'm up at 3:00 AM we end up in a big ugly fight. He thinks I am not sympathetic about what he's going through, and I think I would be more supportive if I didn't feel like he sticks me on a shelf when times get tough instead of drawing to me. How can we break this cycle?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): What an ass that last poster was. Hey, here's an idea if we all buy vibrators we won't need pricks like him anymore. We'd probably be alot happier in the long run!!! Don't worry sweetie, you have every right to be upset. xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): If hes not in the mood and you are, well get a vibrator! It sounds like you both have communication issues and I would suggest that either you both sit down and talk to each other about what is really bothering you, or go to a relationship counsellor. You do sound like you are very insecure and have a very low self esteem.
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