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writes:I need some advice - I met this guy about a month or so ago, at first I thought he just wanted to be friends, so we got to know each other mostly through online chat (its easy since we both have office jobs). Then about two weeks ago we started dating.. i.e. sleeping together. Right away I told him that I'm not interested in a FwB relationship and that while I am not necessarily looking for long term, we're going to get married super serious thing, I do want at least some commitment. He reassured me that he's a nice and that he likes me and is not looking for a booty call. However, most of our communication is still online. Meaning that he never calls me or texts me (unless its to invite me somewhere). Even though he is very nice and attentive when Im around him, the lack of communication when I'm not makes me wonder if this is a FwB situation..Would it be appropriate for me to say something this early or am I just being too pushy in wanting him to talk to me almost every day so early on?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 November 2008):
I think you should start calling him.
Just do it! Call him and chat when ever you want to.
If after a while he hasn't cottoned on then you can just ask why he always waits for you to call? It doesn't have to be as accusation, just a gentle hint that you'd like him to go further.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): u need to speak to him about it. you can't be thinking about getting married to him and you hardly ever talk. i mean i got a boyfriend and we talk online, on the phone and face to face and im not saying its not a long term thing but its alot of communication. don't think that its you being pushy because its not... tell him about this before its too late.
sorry if its not alot of help and good luck hope it turns out for the best!
xxx
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