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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

We both are in a relationship, but I like him, but I don't know if he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I like this guy but he has a girlfriend, and I have a boy friend, but I think he likes me but sometimes leaving me confused.When I look at him I quickly catch a glance of him looking at me but then turns away. Then he gave my friend hes mobile ...

Had a row, he went to ex's flat, stayed the night, do I believe that nothing happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Had a row with my boyfriend he went to the ex flat stayed the night says nothing happened should i believe him ? ...

Is phone sex cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I cant stop thinking of cheating on my boyfriend .I had phone sex with another man and it turned me on ,totally!! . Is something wrong with me ? Is phone sex cheating ?I wanted to be in a open relationship and he said he will think about it ....Am I...

Can I get this relationship back on track? Can I change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4669 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - sun won't shine, moon won't glow. Would you ever take back a cheating ex? Would you ever take back someone who hit you? Someone who slept with you even though they had a gf/bf? Even if you were the one who cheated first? I had this ex...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

I'm afraid of being alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4670 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I'm afraid of being alone. When I don't have a guy giving me attention, I feel empty. If I don't have someone at the time pursuing me I find someone. It's not hard to find a sucker. I tried to be alone but when I feel like i want to be al...

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

I'm tired of always being the second place girl, the rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 18yrs old and I fell for a man who is 30 yrs old. He is dating his girlfriend for 6 yrs, and i was told he broke up with her two months before he started seeing me. but then i found out, he lied to me and her and everyone he knew about the ...

Is there a future with this married woman or am I just a fling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Greetings Aunts! I am in a place I never expected to be, which is that I am involved with a married woman and have been for almost three years now. She is in my class at grad school. The way that our school works, the grad students...

I can't get past his cheating ways..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi am miss caribbean. I am in a relationship over eight Years and I hate the way my boyfriend treats me. he cheat on me for two years and I stayed with him but I can't get over it. it hurts what should I do it makes me cry in the nite his family ...

Which woman do I pick? My long term gf or the new woman, I feel sexually attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hi im 32 im a gay woman and been with my girlfriend over a year. dont live together yet but we are engaged. thing is we had some ups and downs and i just no longer fancy her and lost my sex drive months ago. i love her so much and enjoy her company ...

Are all FWB relationships conducted, in this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this question is for people who are in a fwb arrangement. how well do they treat you. I am in one. have been for 11 months now. he never comes round apart from the obvious when he is horny. he is not speaking to me at the moment because ...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

My b/f got both me and his ex pregnant at the same time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4670 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her Chantel cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnap...

What's your opinion of guys who flirt with their ex, while the guy is still IN a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I just wanted everyone's opinion on this. I ask because my ex still flirts with me even though he's got a girlfriend. He's even said to me once how do I know if he ain't lying about being in a relationship, and that I should pretend that he's still ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, ...

He said it was a joke but it's still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Please help me I'm struggling. So to make this short. I'm gay and I'm 18 I have a boyfriend who's 19 we have four months together. Do now about my issue. I went on my boyfriend Facebook without permission I loged on with his password and checked his ...

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

Advise required on how to keep our affairs on the boil

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - i had sex continually with my wife's good friend who too is married for many monthes. we know its wrong but we both want to continue. please advice what we shud do to continue our relationship....

This 'happily married man' seems too eager to perform handy man favours for my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Prior to meeting my girlfriend a year and a half ago, she met this supposedly “happily married” man at a church social function. According to my girlfriend, he apparently calls her from time-to-time to say “hi,” and will always inquire about any ...

My husband has joined an online dating site

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - My husband has joined a sex dating site. Should I be worried. Or is it harmless fun?? ...

Has my husband's love for me faded?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - hi guys. my husband has been leaving on his own outside the country. recently i joined him there. but he doesnt seem happy to be with me. apparently its an isolated place with mostly men there. he has become so harsh with me. always finding fault ...

I still can't be intimate with my wife despite forgiving her infidelities

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My wife and i have been married going on 4 years. In our first year married she cheated on me with my ex best friend. Well i found out later by her best friend and for a while My wife denied it then she finally broke down and told me. Well I forgave ...

I am almost certain my husband is using escort services!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I also am pretty certain that my husband for the 25 years is using escort services. My husband is self employed ,he not a nine until 5 man. There are alot of unexplained afternoon mobile numbers on his bill, when he dails these nu...

My life is a mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4673 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - So I have a list of issues and I do not deny I need therapy but I am here to vent something...I would love the comments and the advice but I'm not really asking for it, I am but im not. I want guidance but I know what to do I'm educated intelligent ...

If I don't get away from this guy at work...I could be tempted! What can I do?

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27 January 2012 (F) - hey everyone I'm in a bit of a dilemma, I am currently with my bf over 2 yrs i really do love him to bits but we barely have sex its been like this from the time we met i'd always have to make the first move. Well 6 months ago i started a new job 3 ...

My boyfriend's controlling behaviour is bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Hi I’m 26 years old, in December I sent a message to my friend saying I miss my ex, I did anything towards that feeling and I just said to coz I’m getting married and I was having cold feet. My bf saw this message and ever since this incident he...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating because some guy texted me saying he wished I was single!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4674 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him because of this guy texted me and said something about he wanted me to be single and after that i didn't text back and haven't talked to him since then. My boyfriend sister went through my phone and told him ...

His behavior is out of order! How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4674 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Is there some that could help me? Im in a messy relationship and im 5 months pregnant. Im 27, hes 53. Yes i know huge age gap but age is just a number. we've been together a year/was friends for a year before we got together. When we first ...

Just learned that my wife cheated while we were engaged

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I just found out my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. I'm really confused about what to do. Part of me wants to just leave and get a divorce, but my wife and I have been married for more than 10 years and 3 children. My trust in her is ...

Should I leave or stay? My ex husband cheated and may have a child with her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - My screen name is blackwidow48, because of how I feel inside. I have been married for 16 years, but divorced for 2 years yet, my ex got evicted and asked if he could stay with me for a few months to save money and that was 8 months ago and he still ...

I loved him so much but he treated me bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Why would you want to hurt someone that loves you so much? is something wrong with me? I loved him so much I thought he loved me too.. He was so nice so sweet, I felt for him and he told me he loved me everyday. But then he broke up with me...

I feel so guilty about how easily I hooked up. Am I the hypocrite now, after my own outrage at my Gf cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - hey! so my gf of two and a half years cheated on me and it was terrible etc so i thought why not get back out there! so i got this girls number who i thought was pretty cute in a spur of the moment decision, Í'd never seen her before, but later th...

I want to trust him again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - hey, how do you know when you can re-trust someone? I ask because i still feel troubled from time to time about my bf of 16 months. Everything's great right now, but i caught him sexting an ex-workmate at 6 months, confronted him right away and was ...

I'm just so angry with him for having another child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I'm feel like I'm stuck in this mess and really need some answers or guidance from ppl that have been through what I'm going through. So I have been with my fiance since 2007 around Christmas time of 2010 I have found out that he was cheating on me ...

Please help me get past my trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I just can not get the thought of my boyfriend cheating out of my head. In May 2011 he started lying to me http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-suspect-my-bf-is-cheating-and-need.html It is now January and i still can not move on. I love him and i ...

Adam or Eve, am I being played?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - am i jealous, stupid, controlling, or just kidding myself loving this person? what would you do? I have dated this 30 year old Micronesian for 3 months before we decided to be official. It was nice, I planned a whole day for the to of us and the...

What's wrong with sexting someone else while in a committed relationship?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - why is sexting (sending racy/sexually suggestive texts and FB messages) wrong? I can't see a problem with it and have been sexting an ex-colleague who i have no intention of seeing in reality. My gf of 6 months (who i love and am serious about) ...

Am I just another notch on his headboard? I don't feel I matter to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. During that time, we split twice. The first time was for 3 weeks, the second time was for a month. The first time we split I had assumed he got cold feet. Recently, though, I found out that his girl...

He wants another chance. Should I give it to him? Or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Please help me! My ex and I had been together for year, on and off again. Everything was fine at first but then he became friends with the girl (Kylie) who's known for sleeping around and trying to sleep with all of the black guys here at schoo...

Friend and family dumped by dad, now he wants back in but she wont listen!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I need elderly advice please. My friends father practically kicked her mother brothers and her out when she was 2. Reason? He had a new cindrella. My friend like me is 20 and never wants to marry. She says men are things she does when less busy! Her ...

What should I think about the way he acts around this woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Basically my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and one weekend I went to visit him, On the weekend we went out with his college friends and one of them named John bought his fiancee Anna with him. At the meal my boyfriend focused a ...

She wants me to have sex with someone else before we get married. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

23 January 2012 (M) - I’ll try to keep this as short as possible. It all started with “what would you do if..” questions. A few questions in, it was my turn: Me: “What’s the first thing you’d do if we broke up?” Her: “Hmm.. More girl’s nights! What’s the first ...

Wife scared of attraction to other man, how do I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

23 January 2012 (M) - Good Afternoon, I could really use some assistance from the "experts" out there. My wife and I are each others first. July of this year we will have been together for 10 years, and married for 6. We have an amazing year and a half old chil...

I saw him kiss her on the lips, am I wrong to bring it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have a question recently I saw my boyfriend getting too warm and giving kisses on lips to his freinds wife in front of everyone it looked everyone was okay but I found it uncomfortable. I am an Indian so is my boyfriend and I am eleven years ...

Relationships, cheating, possessiveness. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

23 January 2012 (?) - Hi. I recently posted in "I cheated and he just won't stop bringing it up!! Advice pls?" Anyway... off that topic now... here's a new one: Possessiveness... My boyfriend (he's 21) of whom I have been with for 6 months, not only bring...

My partner ended things but just the day before we talked about out future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - please can you help me, i have just found out my partner is on a forces penpal site. We have been together 3 years and lived together for 1 year, a friend of mine saw him on there and it says he is single, i asked him why he is on there and he said ...

I don't want to be stuck in a position where I'm not free to leave!

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23 January 2012 (F) - Okayy well i was just wondering if anyone can give me some advice on my relationship. Okay. well we have only been officially together for 3-4 weeks, but we have been unofficially together for around 5 months, i need to know if I've just got cold...