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writes:Hi Everyone,I also am pretty certain that my husband for the 25 years is using escort services. My husband is self employed ,he not a nine until 5 man. There are alot of unexplained afternoon mobile numbers on his bill, when he dails these numbers they seem to follow a pattern, he dails the the number two or three times in a short space of time then his phone goes to answer phone for at least an hour .Also just before and after hes daileds these numbers hes rang me either on my mobile or landline its as if he wants to know where I am, I also found recently a call he made to when I rang the number it was microsoft live meeting support. He says he can't text or use the internet and has generaly tried to make out to my son and daughter that I a paranoid nutcase. Can anyone plese help me to find out if these numbers are for escort services I am at my wits end.
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reader, tiamaria12 +, writes (31 January 2012):
tiamaria12 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Everyone,
Thanks for the advise you have all given. I can't do reverse look up because in the UK we don't have reverse phone look up free as you do in the United States. The only reliable website to find out the name and address of these mobile numbers is a website that charges £125.00 per number they look up, which as you can imagine is very costly, he knows I am suspicious because he has taken my computer when I was at work and replaced it, I know its been moved because he left the mains lead hanging down my kitchen worktop,I always make sure the lead is up behind my computer because the dog chewed up last time . If he has got nothing to hide why is he so interested on whats on my computer he tells me he cannot even text let alone use a computer. I do have copies of all his mobile bills and wondered if anyone knows what the usual procedure of booking an escort, a fried of mine said once an escort has been booked by telephone the punter has to ring the escort again when arriving in the street where they live to get the house number, apparently escorts do this as some kind of safety precaution, does anyone know if this is right? I am also going to hire a private investigator to follow him for 4 or 5 days and will update you all the outcome. Thanks again everyone for your help I really do appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): there is something you need need think about what has been posted from a male reader anonymous. are you really prepared for what this may be leading to? if you are, then find your proof. if he then lies about it, you don`t even have to discuss it any further with him. more often than not, gut feelings are right. i dont think he`s paying for escorts, but think he`s possibly got someone else or is a date site junkie. yes it is a better idea to stay quiet and act oblivious, until you have something better to present to him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 January 2012):
 Get a print out of his phone bill with all the numbers on it (if you can) and do a reverse phone look up.
I don't think it's escorts, but random NSA people (No Strings Attached)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): Well I can tell you that one of my ex's who was (and still is) addicted to internet dating, used the 'you're paranoid' tactic with me. This does not mean he is seeing escorts. If you are convinced, then you at least need real proof and he will probably lie anyway. Unless you're prepared to end your marriage, what's the use? If anyone says you are wrong to snoop, don't let them stop you. You are the one who's going through the torment, not them. I would not mention anything else to him unless you find something that can be undisputed. Do not let him know that you are onto something.
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (28 January 2012):
 i think you are over thinking , and hopefully worrying for nothing. you can go to his cell phone co. get a print out on his phone calls in and out. call some of the no. back. or hire a private investigator to do it, and to check on him. why the mistrust ? must be more to the story? are things good between you and him? maybe you just need to talk to him .
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): What makes you believe they are escorts? They could be desperate women from internet chat rooms or dating sites? They may be something legitimate? Has microsoft live meeting got anything to do with escort services? I would get your facts right before confronting him. You are only helping him cover his tracks better, if he`s up to no good.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 January 2012):
 Maria: I imagine you could find an affordable P.I. (Private investigator) who would tail your man for a couple of days to see if your concerns are justified.
IF they are (justified), then you need to know.... need to confront him... and, be prepared to dump his sorry a*s. You don't need to tolerate a man who is unfaithful to you..
Good luck.....
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