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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend but they are in a long distance relationship? Do I have a chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - *OP's own title* hey everyone, i am 21 years old,so recently i met this guy thru a friend,we met just once but we really clicked..but he has a girlfriend he is pretty serious about.. but i cant seem to get over this guy i think if given a chance i ...

Did I cheat? Am I obligated to tell my wife what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - One night in the first year my wife and I were together we got into a huge fight and we broke up. we wernt married yet. She left my house and went home and at the time I was completely devastated. I went out to an all night grocery store where ...

How can I convince him to take the next step?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - i in iove with a married man and he feels the same but he is afraid to leave his wife. we get on together and share a lot. how can i convince him to take the next step? We are same age, we trust each other too....

She's getting attracted to girls again, and is bugging me to let do something with them! I think it's cheating. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend 'W' have been together for almost a year and a half. We met at school and liked each other straight away. I was shocked to learn recently that she used to only like girls, and has in the past had girlfriends, but she says it ...

Should I make this gigantic life change for the woman I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

31 March 2010 (?) - So I impregnated a woman with 4 kids who is in a verbally and physically abusive marriage. I did not know most of the facts at the time and it was sort of a woops moment, but yea. We always went to my place, etc.. Plus she wanted it. Kept...

Yes I cheated but will he ever put this in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my husband and i have been struggling in our relationship for 5 years ago we have been in a relationship for 10 and married for going on 2 well 5 years ago i got really drunk and really don;t remember the night and i cheated well for 5 years we have ...

I believe he never physically cheated, but things are unresolved. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Unfortunately when I was pregnant with our son my husband took it upon himself to seek out other people on craigslist and sent private pictures of himself to one of them, well I found out and confronted him. He swears that he never met with any of ...

Is he just using me for a game or does he see a future even it is just with me as the "other woman"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I am falling for a male colleague 20 years my senior. We are both married and I know he loves his wife and she is pretty stunning. We have started texting and it is becoming quite sexual. He tells me things like he is feeling randy etc. We have als...

How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...

My world fell apart when my husband started this affair...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My world fell apart when my husband began an affair on the 23rd of December 2009. As far as I knew all was well! Its made harder by the fact the girl is everything he has ever tried to change about me.. she is a large girl who is covered in facial ...

I played with fire and I got burned!

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...

Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't just dump him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I love this guy with all my heart; he's my first love, and every time I think about us breaking up I just start to cry. We began our relationship online in 2008, but since he and I were both under 18 and living on opposite sides of the country, we ...

He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...

I feel romantic towards my bestfriend, and bored with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - How do I choose between two guys I am very close to?? Nr. 1. I am together with him about one year and two weeks ago still loved him. Then suddenly there was nothing left.I lied to him once or twice but told him everything about me.. there are n...

I feel guilty for my affair with a married man, ...yet want him to move to my country. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - i want a couple of months ago to cuba there i met a man which he is married with two kids, we had a affair, I'm going back very soon to see him. i feel like I've falling in love what should i feel very guilty because on top of that his aunt is marry ...

I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I start...

Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took ...

Help!!! How do I end this affair?

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29 March 2010 (M) - I've just turned 21 and have been working at my job for about 18 months now. It started at last years work staff party. Everyone was dancing, drinking and partying, because i dont drink or smoke, i kept myself one side and chatted to anyone ...

I still have feelings for my womanizing ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - How do i cope with this. Im totally confused about my feeling for my ex. Do i still love him? Dont i? I spent 3 yrs of my life chasing this man it wasnt really a proper relationship but i was besotted with him! We were on off all the time i wanted...

Evidence of a possible affair from years ago, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts Please can you give me some advice. To cut a long story short, I am recovering from finding out that my husband was having an affair - this was over two years ago [2008] and we did the counselling thing. And to date things have...

Can I be forgiven for cheating? Do I deserve a chance to prove myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - This is what happened, i was with my now ex "Ladge" on and off for 2 years. We split and decided to become friends as we got on so well. We never loved each other but as she had a kid and enjoyed doing sports together we tried to keep a friendship ...

My wife was cheating with her cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - My wife cheated on me with her cousin. They had sex multiple times and she was staying at his house. This was all while she was on vacation visiting her family. She just started getting to know them all including her father. He ran out on her mother ...

Who do I choose, my husband or my lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I'm married but start loving to anish my boyfriend.My husband also love me but i never like his attitude and arguments ? I can't divorced with my husband because our family not permitted this they try to solve the problem between me and my husband ...

He promised it would never happen again... and now the emails have started again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for a couple of years and have a beautiful son. Over the last 6 mths or so, I found my husbands email account open and he was asking his ex for nude photos etc and emails about their past relationship. My husband is away ...

Help this stressed out hubby whose wife was sending naughty texts to another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - A few months ago I started suspecting my wife was sending naughty messages to one of the truck drivers that delivers to her work. I asked her about it and she said it was just a friend and they talk about their day and nothing more then that. We ...

I gave my guy friend some relationship advice and now my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - ok i really love this guy and hes my boyfriend but then a couple of days ago i talked to another guy and he told me about his relationship problems and gave him advice and he is only a friend that i gave advice to and my boyfriend doesn't believe ...

Should I get back together with the ex I love but don't trust?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hi All, I've been dealing with this decision for some time now.. sometimes I feel I've made up my mind, then I come undone and feel confused again. I was with my ex for 3 years, we had a break as I felt he needed time to sort out his issues. Dur...

Secret affair with a married straight man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - Hey I've known this str8 dude for 10 years now. As kid we've done things together. Sexually and even as adults. There's been a few time I had pay him but it still happened. Now he knows I love him and I know he uses that to his advantage. He has an ...

Each time it happens he says that he's sorry! Now he's done it again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend has hurt me in the past in terms of flirting with women, he tells them that he wants to be with them, calls them baby, asks them if he can come over, wants to get stuff for them and more, (never had sex with them though that i know)! ...

How can I know he's not playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. His first interest is "sex" and nothing but sex, 15 years having sex as he wishes, I knew him at work I didn't have any relationships before him, he's the first man I know in my life. I kept myself from ...

Worried in case I've caught an STD!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little confused here as to what to think. Last weekend i had sex with my ex boyfriend (silly i know, and I'm not proud of it) but it happened and I'm a little worried about STDs. I currently have a boyfriend who I also have an unprotected ...

Exposed my former wife's lies, but still unsure of my future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - I'm in my early stages of a breakup and I'm pretty sure i want to go forward from here. i will keep it in point form as it is a long history: recently found out that my partner has been seeing another man, was/am super pissed off. she denied i...

Do EX's change?

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28 March 2010 (F) - I am 28, my ex-boyfriend is 30. We had been together for 4 years and have been apart for one year. The reason why we broke up was that I couldn't take the stress anymore from not trusting him. After two years we were together, he cheated on me; n...

I know I shouldn't have cheated, so how can I have a future with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Im currently engaged to my beautiful fiance, who i have been with for a year now... We started dating in march 2009. It started out as a physical relationship for like the first month, and eventually the emotions got deeper. But at the same time i ...

Hurt and betrayed by his text messages to another woman

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years now and on the weekend of my birthday we rented a resort and invited some friends to celebrate. Well when he fell asleep something told me to check his phone and I did. That's when I found out! I h...

She's no longer with him but wants him there when she's having the baby!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I am a woman and my girl friend cheated on me, and now she is pregnant. She told me how sorry she was and that she would never do it again. I got passed that and told her that I will help her raise the baby and that's what she wants too. She's due ...

I just found out my wife has been having an affair for 4 - 5 years and am devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - I am a 56 year old man who has just found out that my wife of 36 years this year has been having an affair with one man for the past 4-5 years. I am absolutely devasted as one can imagine. My love for her is so strong that I rang her and asked her ...

My bestfriend is mad at me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - my best friend is mad at me cause i like her ex boyfriend that broke up with her cause she cheated on him..... what sould i do?...

I cheated and now she only wants to be friends. How can I change her mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - i recently have cheated on my girlfriend of almost 6yrs. We have been dating since we were 15 and now we our 22 about to graduate college. about a month ago i cheated with a 28 yr girl that had picked me up at a bar. at the time our relationship was ...

My boyfriend is still actively looking online and he avoids discussing the subject

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - mi feel jealous of my bf's web usage. we live together. he still meets girls online. he keeps his singles/dating profile active. he tells me they are just friends that he chats with. what gives? i don't know what to think. to me this is cheating. is ...

I'm racked with guilt but think I'm developing a real crush for this guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Dear cupid. I'm writing this letter because i'm at my wits end. Having lived with my boyfriend for 8 months, he had to move away to a new job having lost his here two months ago. He travels home every 2nd weekend and we stay in touch daily via phone ...

He posted online for male sex partners! Is he just bi-curious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I have recently discovered that my boyfriend has been posting m4m ads on craigslist. For some reason, this is more comforting than m4w. But that's another story... I don't know if he's acted on any of these (I only know of three) but why is he ...

I feel unloved, both by my hubby and by the guy I had an affair with

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I am married and started seeing a married man. A little bit of history... I knew him back when I was 16 (he was 21) and we worked together. He never lead on like he liked me, of course I would catch him looking at me. I totally was crushing on ...

Found out that he kissed another girl..how do I bring this up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Last night, I was at my boyfriends house, and he while he was outside smoking, I was very very bored, and randomly decided to look through his phone. I don't know why I did it, I trusted him implicitly, and didn't expect to find anything. But peop...

He was a cheating man so I dropped him...did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I have been involved with a man now for 6 years and have known all along that there were things he was concealing from me but you know how it goes I bring it up he denies everything. So for awhile I leave things alone until the other day I call...

With whom do I live my life with? My Husband or this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I'm 18 year old married girl from Mumbai and studying in second year at commerce and my husband living in Allahabad doing post graduation from Arts .i'm ALSO DOING JOB.my husband don't like i'm doing job and he also want I'm settled in villa...

Should I live with him and start a new life with our son...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - here's my story...I had a boyfriend 6yrs ago..we've been together for a year and then when he met my family..I kinda left him..meaning I didn't talk to him or see him anymore because my parents didn't like him..he's been calling me but I never ...

Is my boyfriend ready to hear the important details about my affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Ok, so I cheated on my boyfriend 5 months ago and told him almost immediately, but left out details as he didn't want to know them. All he knows is that I cheated on him, we didn't have sex, and it was a one-time thing. The guy I cheated with lived ...

After hearing he verbally cheated on me I feel all these years together have been fake.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost seven years now. Last year I found out he was cheating on me through email. The girl he was talking to had an ex that actually told me. I guess they used to chat online alot back when they were younger. ...

How can I make up for cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

25 March 2010 (F) - right i have a boyfriend who i have been with for over 10 months. i cheated on him just before christmas. he knows about this and i was completley honest but feel like i need to make it up to him, how do i do this?...