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writes:*OP's own title*hey everyone,i am 21 years old,so recently i met this guy thru a friend,we met just once but we really clicked..but he has a girlfriend he is pretty serious about..but i cant seem to get over this guy i think if given a chance i wld be the best he ever had..he finds me cute but i dont know if he wld leave his girlfriend.i know me even wanting this is wrong because he is comitted but this is for the first time i am head over heels for a guy who olready has a gf..his gf lives on the other side of the world cuz he is studying in my place!its only because they have a long distance relationship i think i have a chance.i know all of u will tell me to forget him and they are plenty fishes in the sea,but i tried i promise but i couldnt!arrrghhh help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): The fact that you think it is ok to even think about him like this is completely unreasonable. I have been the gf in a long-distance relationship before, at time when not only was my bf on the other side of the world, but my step-mother died and my home burned down to the ground. I needed my bf here, but he was working. I know that many girls were interested in him, but he never gave in. BUT, for a guy who is far from home, from his gf, it could be easy for him to get lonely and need some kind of affection...your encouragement might coax him into getting closer to you, but it would be just that, you would be an insignificant distraction. You would end up hurting yourself, possibly him, and DEFINITELY his gf. You don't wanna be a homewrecker, do you?
In relation to my bf,Even though these presumptuous arrogant little teens did nothing but embarrass themselves, it was so hurtful! THINK about the fact that these two are in a relationship, they have history together, and the fact that they are still together despite the distance means that they love each other far more than you can imagine. So stop messing around and find someone who IS available.
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reader, WiseAngela23  +, writes (1 April 2010):
Wait till he doesn't have a girlfriend. My brother got involved with a girl who was living with her boyfriend and I guess since she thought it was okay for her to cheat the 1st time she can do it again so she slept with my brothers roomate. I reccomend that you wait till he is free or this could happen to you also.
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