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writes:I am a woman and my girl friend cheated on me, and now she is pregnant. She told me how sorry she was and that she would never do it again. I got passed that and told her that I will help her raise the baby and that's what she wants too. She's due in 2 months. Now she wants him in the room to see his child born. I think it's messed up but am I wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Thanks to all who wrote back I really needed it. The last writer see and understand how I feel he most. That man has every right to be in the childs life but in the D room NO. So thank you to ALL
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Does he even want to see the child born? If she was a one-night stand and he just had a baby, he might not even show up. On one hand, I can understand your girlfriend wanting him there, but on the other hand, if you're going to be in the child's life permanently and you are going to be raising the kid, she should respect that and not have him in the delivery room, too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Not the fact that he is going to be in the baby's life because he did it too. And he do need to be their as well as help her pay for the rest of the baby's life. Less money out my pocket... That shit was suppose to be a one night stand. They dont care about each other and its just about the baby. My whole thing is im gonna be their for life is he? He has another child that just got born and he talked about writing his papers to me. AKA He was gonna give me his child and now this...It too many up and downs but I think shes tryna make to many ppl happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Of course the father of the child should be there. In fact he has every right to be involved with the child for the rest of the child's life. He has more rights here than you do, by far.
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reader, Brutus +, writes (28 March 2010):
In all honestity the other posters hit the nail on the head here, in all honestiy she might even fall under this case study i read but thats besides the point You need to decide weather to stay with her or not no one can decide for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): Yes you are wrong. He's the father of the child and he should be there when the baby is born. I'm sorry she cheated on you but that's beside the point. the baby is almost here and believe it or not the guy she cheated with might want to help raise the child and if he does he has every right to do so. So if you want to be in your girlfriend and her baby's life you're gonna have to deal with that, or move on! Good luck to you.
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