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*atreesan
writes:ok i really love this guy and hes my boyfriend but then a couple of days ago i talked to another guy and he told me about his relationship problems and gave him advice and he is only a friend that i gave advice to and my boyfriend doesn't believe any of it. he thinks that im cheating on him and he thinks that me and this other guy is doing sexual things but were not. he is only a friend so like i said my boyfriend doesn't believe me and i want him to believe me because i would never cheat on my boyfriend, i love him so much but sometimes i dont think he believes me. sometimes i feel like he really never believes me and we was sopposed to meet for the very first time this week and we have been going out for about 8 months now and i dont want to lose him. somebody please help me, im crying again Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Ask him why he doesn't believe you. He has no reason to think you're cheating does he? It's good that you are a supportive friend to the other guy, that's not something you should stop to keep your paranoid boyfriend happy.
Does your boyfriend often not trust you or believe what you say? Because that shows serious lack of respect.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Stop contact with this friend to show him that there is nothing on between you two.
You b/f is abusive and controlling.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 March 2010):
I'm not sure you should be going out with this guy. He sounds really insecure and possessive. He has no reason at all to suspect you're cheating. All you did was give some advice. If your boyfriend is getting worked up about this, then you're in for a bit of a rough ride from this guy because he sounds controlling and insecure.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 what? you are supposed to meet for the very first time?
you are 13-15, you have never met him
you don't love him.
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