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writes:I'm in my early stages of a breakup and I'm pretty sure i want to go forward from here. i will keep it in point form as it is a long history:recently found out that my partner has been seeing another man, was/am super pissed off. she denied it initially. went on the offensive (you never loved me, you cheated on me before, 1989, i left you five months ago; she moved to be with her family in another town, we still communicated, had sex during this time period). confronted this other man on fbook, was honest and sincere, he replied with 'i'm not playing these games..' immediately told my ex, the ex attacke me, told me to leave him alone. i decided to bluff and fbooked him again, that i would expose him, he immediately took himself off the facebook site. wife continued to defend him, so i knew he was telling her everything i told him. we have five children and two small grandbabies, she hasn't come to visit since I exposed her. I still miss her because of my feelings for her and our long history together. I know best thing is to limit contact with her. Kids are with me. So my question is, is this the right path to take? I dont' regret the confrontation with the other guy, i don't regret confronting her. I have no regrets except that I shouldn't have given her the satisfaction of telling hr that I missed her, baring my hurt and feelings. am i in the right path or am i doing something wrong?
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reader, lerokiya +, writes (17 April 2010):
lerokiya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi, thanks for ur posts. my ex still continues to play games, like she's the victim and i'm the guy who caused all of this. she only came to visit once since christmas and that was for barely a day and a half at easter holidays. i tried to accomodate her but she ran right back to her bf. what kind of woman would choose a man, make herself available for his sexual needs, over her family? I truly believe she is a Sociopath. she shows no remorse, guilt, doesn't take responsibiity for her actions and txts me to let me know how wonderful her relationship is. what a complete joke. she is not fit to be called a mother, grandmother. i'm in the anger stage of my grief right now and still hanging on, but not hanging on to her. she lives in her own misery and thats what she deserves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): First thing is to get a lawyer, get custody of the kids, change the locks, get an official separation, if you have any bank accounts with her get new ones of your own. Record any and all conversations with her, print out and keep any emails with her (and him). Once you have done all this start divorce proceedings with your lawyer.
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Your deffinately in the right. Just limit contact with her and keep ur foot down and ur chin up. Good luck.
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