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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He feels like a 'keeper' but I'm finding it really hard to trust his sweet talking words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, almost 10. I love him, I think I'm in love with him. But I don't know, how can I be sure? How can I be sure he's in love with me? He tell me he's madly in love with me, and I'm the only girl he EVER ...

People are spreading rumors about my fiance cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Other people are spreading rumors and accusing my fiance of cheating,They have also told him negative things about me. He said that he isn't cheating and it is causing a great deal of stress within the relationship. What do I do?...

Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it. if he turns up...

Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many ...

I don't know how this works...do couples tend to buy more expensive gifts for their partner through the years and discuss the price range??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I just received the Christmas gift box my bf who I'm in an open relationship with sent from the US, I'm in the UK and he moved from the UK to Asia for a job. I'm from a culture in which we don't celebrate Christmas so this is the first Christmas ...

Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...

Experiences with cheating boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 December 2010 (?) - Okay, so I met my boyfriend at work, we were friends for a while then got together. I know a lot about his past, he's been engaged before and such... Anyway, his ex girlfriend was a bit of a stalker, she would constantly text but he'd never respo...

Is it possible that we're meant to be even though he's married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. I have been seeing him for a little over a year. He was only engaged when I met him,that I found out months later in the relationship. I knew he had a girlfriend but didn't know she was his fiancee. We started having ...

Should I invest in a keylogger for his laptop and phone even though my heart tells me it will probably spell the end of our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together since we were 19, married since the age of 20. He's always been heavily into pornography and is constantly pushing me to engage in activities that make me uncomfortable. I understand that porn use is very comm...

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

I work with the woman I have been having a 5 year affair with and its causing alot of stress

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Please I am looking for some advice and opinions, I know I will get judged but I can do that myself and have been will pay for this for the rest of my life I know. I've been married for 13years we met in university and we were good friends, played ...

Will the hurt ever go away, or should I cut my losses and apply for a divorce and let 10 years of marriage go down the drain?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband had a one night stand with a "friend" of mine. I am not sure that I can forgive or forget it. I have tried and we have done the counsleing deal, but I have so much anger inside of me, because I feel as if he has brought this into our ...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Do men who cheat love the women they are cheating on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - A Gf of mine and i were having a debate about this question: Do men who cheat(whether they are married or not)do they love the women that they are either married to or live with? I told her that how in the world could any man say that they love...

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

He has a girlfriend but he prefers me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I'm single and the past year of my life I've spent "having fun." I figured I'm young no use in tying myself down. But now my views ave changed. You see there is this guy and we have known each other for a couple of years. He is best friends with my ...

Is it ok to take a secret lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 39 yrs married with two kids-sometimes i feel very lonely in my marriage -my huby very boring -iv tried to emphasise on how i want to be loved-very stubborn not romantic at all-am really bored-is it rite if i can a secrete lover? To overcome this ...

Why would he kiss me when he is in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have liked a guy who works at my local pub for over a year. Recently a friend of mine told him that I like him and subsequently he told me that he feels the same. The problem is he has a girlfriend - they have been together for two years. I ...

She cheated, I dumped her, but am having second thoughts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years. and have never been happier, until i find out for a couple months my girlfriend was sleeping with her ex. the last time she slept with him was at least 6 months ago. but during the cheating period i ...

Do we have a future? He won't get a divorce.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - im 21, he's 28. we're coworkers at a restaurant. ever since he first kissed me out of nowhere a year and a half ago, we've been making out, texting, even hanging out when we can outside of work. we never hooked up. hes not pressuring me at all, im a ...

He always accuses me of cheating, but I didn't!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi... I would really appreciate your help, because i am really desperate now... My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now.. i never done anything that could make him think that i like someone else, except going out a few times, and ...

I love my girlfriend and we're in an amazing relationship even though we're so far away....then why did I cheat?????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Ok so here's my situation I'm with the love of my life and she's the bestest person ever and we share and talk about everything Everything is great and i truly care for her and miss her and always think about her and she has the same feelings fo...

Am I being realistic? She wants to wait for her cheater. I want to wait for her

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30 December 2010 (M) - I came out of a relationship about 3 months ago. And since then I've been chatting to friends and such, and my one friend was going through a break up/being messed around by her ex who is basically a womaniser. Anyway, through my friend and through ...

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

Why do I keep dreaming about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i was best friends with a girl sometime back, it was like we both were very close and the chemistry made me fall for her, i couldnt help it. Even she was close to me and used to hug me when going on bike rides, i even used to let her sleep in my ...

How do I get over this crazy in love feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy when i was 16. From the first time i met him, i was really excited. I thought he was beautiful and i really admired him. So we kept in touch through the years, granted its only been 5 years. Fast forward to the present, and i think ...

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i di...

Help! My girlfriend is too insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - hey. my girlfriend is so insecure because of what i have done in the past or so she tells me. i Am going to be compeltely honest and i need you people to tell me if its me or if its her issues. We have been dating for 11 months and we both do l...

Can you really alter a polygraph?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Ok, my question is I want to give my husband a polygraph test and I want to know that he cant alter the test. The reason I want him to take one is because well lets just say his work takes him to different places over seas for a year to a yea...

There's no sex in our relationship. Is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, ...

How do I avoid temptation for him?

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30 December 2010 (F) - im in college at the moment and my boyfriend goes to uni a few hundred miles away so he's never home. when he is here its great because we are a perfect couple, theres no flaw to us, but when he's not here....its not the same. he's a popular boy, ...

Am I dumb for staying with my fiancee' if he has cheated more than once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Me and my fiancee' has been together for 3 1/2 years but for a year straight he cheated on me and the 2nd year was shaky then the 3rd year we got right and he changed. Now we are going on our 4th year and I still can't get over what he has done in ...

Was a fling or does he want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone. My boyfriend of 19 months dumped me almost 2 months ago. We were in a long distance relationship as of September this year when he started college, and he's currently home for the X-mas holidays. He attends college overseas. I'm cu...

He flirts online! Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So I need advice, I have been married for 7 years now, and my husband has been looking at personals for about 6 years. not only does he look but he replies and his answers are very sexual. He has also registered at single's websites in the past but ...

I'm having an affair and he ignored me at the bar!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a co-worker for 3 years. I'm separated and he's married and we enjoy each other's company. Recently we met other co-workers at a bar for the holiday. I was there before he was and when he came in he basically ignored me. He walked ...

She's too close to my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a year ago. He and I started dating we broke it off 6 months into the relationship and remained friends. One of my best friends met him around the same time. We both met him through the guy she was dating and interested in at the ...

He wants to marry me... but won't leave the wife!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - He is married, says the wife and him are having problems but he cannot leave his wife and he says he wants to marry me. he knows my family but he is too possessive. why?...

He wants to end our affair and be best friends. I work with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married co-worker for 18 months. We started off as friends and our relationship developed into love over a period of months. We have had many special times together and I love this man more than anyone I ha...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

Cheating with my brother's friend on my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend with whom I've been dating for a year and half (long distance relationship). We see each other every 5-6 months. Everything was perfect. I know he loves me and he is the nicest guy I've ever met. But we r different. He is 24 ...

Did I lose a good guy by vacillating? And can I trust the other guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Been dating again - Guy one: European guy Was perfect until we fell out with each other over a derogatory word. Guy two: US guy 2 wants to fly me into Florida and has bought me a flight - now am battling what to do. Been getting to know guy two ...

Is it possible to fall in love again and forget this loser for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated on and off for 3 years. I am 18 years old. he is the only boyfriend ive had. we broke up recently bcuz he was texting another girl. its not the first time we break up for that reason but i always end up going back to him ...

If I tell her I cheated she may not accept my proposal!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Please 1. what processes do i need to go through during love making (sex) to make my girl smiling during and after sex. 2. I've faulted my girl by having sex with another girl because she refuse my advances. So do i tell her that i did cheat on ...

My girlfriend slept with other men and now I can't touch her without seeing them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I met this girl back in March of 09. We had a lot of fun and built a relationship for a month before having sex. Over the next year and a half we fell apart and a lot of it was she has a lot of problems with her self esteem. I really love this girl ...

I don't feel guilty at all cheating on him? What is wrong with me seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hey, So I'm 20 years old, been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I honestly do love him, he's literally my best friend. We broke you back in February cause I found out he used to think of other girls while we were having sex. I know it seems ...

Is it my own insecurities or is he in the wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship with a guy I have known for a long time and we now have a baby together. I really love him and want to be his wife one day, but I always think hes cheating if hes not with me I think hes cheating of flirting I hate for him to be ...

Is my boyfriend talking to other girls online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I guess I need some reassurance here as my boyfriend is constantly on a "friendship site" (almost everyday) and I'm concerned. He paid for this online site which doesn't look like a dating site, it claims that you can meet international fr...

I'd never cheat, so why can't I stop thinking about the girl at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Hi, i've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and i am happy and so is she. I recently got a job that involves working with the opposite sex which she isn't bothered about. But recently me and this girl who i work with ...

Is chatting on yahoo messenger classified as cheating?

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28 December 2010 (F) - i been with my boyfriend for over a year and we both in love as well as we both live together. the problem is i moved with my mother for certain time but i have been chatting on yahoo messenger everyday with different guys when im bored, and i do...