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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex-boyfriend and I dated on and off for 3 years. I am 18 years old. he is the only boyfriend ive had. we broke up recently bcuz he was texting another girl. its not the first time we break up for that reason but i always end up going back to him bcuz he promises he will change and he is sorry. he has hurt me so many times im extremely tired of it.besides that we were having a lot of issues i was thinking it wasnt going to work out. i was right but now im here feeling so alone and depressed! i dont know what to do i love him with all my heart and all my dreams were based on him. i dont want to be alone i would love to get married one day and be happy. but i just feel like i will never forget him and never stop loving him. im afraid of never falling in love again with another guy or that no one will love me as much as he did. is it possible to fall in love again and forget this loser for good. i dont want to be with another guy and still having feelings for my ex.can someone please give me some advice?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Girl, believe me, I know EXACTLY where you're coming from. And I assure you, you WILL find another man who loves you AND deserves you. Not some lying, cheating asshole. It took a year and a half for me after my abusive and cheating ex boyfriend but I finally met the love of my life and I didn't think I could be this happy! But I am! Take my advice and get out. You need a MAN, not a boy.
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reader, onyx95 +, writes (29 December 2010):
i would say. keep your mind open to other men. i think that your to worried of being alone and not ever having a family to forget about him and find another guy that treats you with more respect. i believe if he really loves you then he wont wait around long enough for you get get another guy and he will just at the chance to be with you again. from what i can tell you have other guys out there waiting to meet you and love you. you just got to let go and keep your mind open..3
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